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Short version:- I'm seeing a mate whilst on the rebound. The previous bloke has come back and I need to dump current bloke. Mate thinks i'm stupid to go back. What do you guys think?
Long boring version:-
Since before xmas I fancied this guy (T). We flirted, kissed, I even slept (that was all) at his. Then things went too far for him and we had a fall out and i got hideously drunk, had a good sob and thought I was over him.
Then my mate told me a friend (D) liked me and I'd never even thought of him that way-he's like a brother. But as I am not one to think about things first, I decided to give it a go. Last sat I found out his mates were spreading rumors so I confronted him and told him and his mates off. Sorted. But T was there and was listening to me moan all nite like a mate wud. Then later he kissed me and I'm back at square1. I know I wentout wit D too soon as I still have feelings for T.
I tried to ring D but he was out so now I have to tell him on sat when we are all out. My mate says this is wrong as after a drink he will be more hurt. I think I owe it to him and respect him too much to lie to him and if T is treats me bad thats my stupid fault.
What do you recomend? Would you tell him face to face on sat or ring him before?
Long boring version:-
Since before xmas I fancied this guy (T). We flirted, kissed, I even slept (that was all) at his. Then things went too far for him and we had a fall out and i got hideously drunk, had a good sob and thought I was over him.
Then my mate told me a friend (D) liked me and I'd never even thought of him that way-he's like a brother. But as I am not one to think about things first, I decided to give it a go. Last sat I found out his mates were spreading rumors so I confronted him and told him and his mates off. Sorted. But T was there and was listening to me moan all nite like a mate wud. Then later he kissed me and I'm back at square1. I know I wentout wit D too soon as I still have feelings for T.
I tried to ring D but he was out so now I have to tell him on sat when we are all out. My mate says this is wrong as after a drink he will be more hurt. I think I owe it to him and respect him too much to lie to him and if T is treats me bad thats my stupid fault.
What do you recomend? Would you tell him face to face on sat or ring him before?
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