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They Call me Ugly
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The guys at my shcool tease me. The ones that have asked me out where ethier gross or tricked me. I hate it. I'm 13 years old and I'm in the 8th grade. I really want a boy I can relate too. I'm not popular and only have like 5 friends. I know it is a good number though. Please help me.:cool:
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When i was in school , i had no boyfriend and was also teased - but it left me with more time to be myself!!
Enjoy being single and have fun with your friends - i know that this is going to be hard but it will pay off! Men don't want needy girls , they want confident sexy and fun to be with girls- and when you stop trying so hard and stop looking the men will come!!
When i was 17 i went to a party and thought to my self that tonight i want to meet somebody and guess what , i DIDN'T !!
The next night i went to another party at the same house and thought to my self i am going to enjoy this party for my friend (It was a farewell party for her) and just have fun - anyway alot of drinking and aprtying later i met someone and to this day we are still together 3 years and 5 months later , living together and very happy!!
Well good luck and remember enjoy yourself!!
These guys saying you are ugly aren't saying you are ugly because you are ugly, it's because they enjoy seeing you get upset. It's sick and twisted I know....
Though if you just want to chat feel free to PM me anytime....
I was also shy and could barely chat to a female without going red. So unsurprisingly I did not have a girlfriend at school, yet that did not phase me at all: I was oblivious to relationships!
I am sure that you are not ugly, so ignore such comments.
As aforementioned, you are nice and young so take full advantage of your youth before becoming involved in a relationship. Naturally, there is nothing wrong with it at your age, but perhaps a friendship would be equally good.
Like the "i want what i cannot have"
all girls do it when they are older, they learn to have guys jumping through hoops for them...
I find the 'I don’t give a damn' attitude a big turn-off, for it normally results in the woman being unfriendly. If, of course, she was obviously being sarcastic or in another distinct way appearing as though she was kidding, then that might be acceptable.
I think that general friendliness and chattiness is the best way forward, with subtle and discreet romantic connotations as required.
Sadly it usually does to small minded people, (normally thick as shit people as well ironically enough)