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moving on (and on and on)
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im feeling a bit crap at the moment, do you ever think that everyone moves on except you?
ok, so i went out with one person for nearly a year, saw someone for about 3 weeks and another for around the same time. and i broke all 3 times off bcos i knew it was best in the long run, and i dont still have feelings for them or anything like that. its just theyre all in new relationships now and it feels weird? like they've moved on and i havent.
rahh i dont know what to do! i know i dont have to get someone new to prove to myself that i have moved on. i just feel crap! help! :crazyeyes
'i used to love sex
now i only love kieren'
TCTC
ok, so i went out with one person for nearly a year, saw someone for about 3 weeks and another for around the same time. and i broke all 3 times off bcos i knew it was best in the long run, and i dont still have feelings for them or anything like that. its just theyre all in new relationships now and it feels weird? like they've moved on and i havent.
rahh i dont know what to do! i know i dont have to get someone new to prove to myself that i have moved on. i just feel crap! help! :crazyeyes
'i used to love sex
now i only love kieren'
TCTC
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Go out with your friends, have a laugh, enjoy life and get out in the world to make your life exciting and remind yourself how much fun you can have. Then you won't need to worry about your ex's.
Everyone does get down if they feel their ex is having more fun than them, or in a relationship before they are etc, but trust me I found that as soon as I thought to myself 'screw this for a laugh, i'll show 'em whose life is better!' ....it worked