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love having sex with girls but make them orgasm

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i have had sex with girls loads of times but when i do i always get imbarressed and i can never give a girl an orgasm if you are the same let me know or if anyone has any advice please let me know how to make a girl orgasm ahitchen63@hotmail.com

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi there

    Despite having quite a bit of sex I tend to get dead nervous .... particularly if I've not had a lot to drink. I once got so nervous that my boyfriend couldn't enter me.

    I think that the only way to really have good sex is either find a hooker (all that practice they must be great at it) or get yourself a regular lass and that way she'll tell you what she likes and you can do the same for her.

    Bloody hell I sound like an agony aunt but it's definitely true. I just need to find a bloke now who I can train to make me orgasm on cue!!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm 24 and have never made a girl cum thro normal sexual intercourse.but that does'nt mean the girl does'nt enjoy it,especially if you are both relaxed and you don't roll over and go to sleep after youve climaxed.remember girls have feelings and emotions.ask the g/f where she likes to be touched and what makes her feel excited and sexy,then do your own things and you may be on the road to giving her an orgasm
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If youre such a sex god surely youd know the answer to that?

    Lick her out. Its not a hard trick to master.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cheap Chick:
    <STRONG>...find a hooker (all that practice they must be great at it).</STRONG>

    Wrong.

    The professional prostitute is there to get a man off as fast as possible with no kissing, no intimacy apart from that necessary to the act, as little friction as possible, and get on to the next one.

    It's like saying that the average check-out clerk at a supermarket must be brilliant at customer care because they deal with so many...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good point. I do apologise for obviously stupid comment.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit:
    <STRONG>If youre such a sex god surely youd know the answer to that?

    Lick her out. Its not a hard trick to master.</STRONG>

    Kermit he probably doesn't know how.lol

    [ 13-04-2002: Message edited by: 'SeaShihtzu' ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here is my take on it. I specifically joined the forum to answer this.

    You see, when making love to a woman, it is totally different from just #@#$ing. In order to make a woman cum you have to stimulate the clitoris as well as her mind. If you stimulate the clit without her mind in tune then forget about it. If you notice those blue movies, no woman has ever cum in one.

    So stimulate the clit and talk to her tell her nice things. Don't attack the pumpum be gentle and you will be surprised to know how quickly she cums.

    Foreplay also is very important. You have to make the pumpum ready. ( I learnt that term pumpum in Jamaica. It is jamaican for Pu$$y) Anyway touch her body all over listen to her breath and groan. A good nice gran mean yes do it some more. When she doesn't like it you will see a difference in her movements and here it in her sounds.

    So if ever you want a woman to cum. Just be gentle and slow. Know that song? I want a lover with a slow hands, I want a lover with an easy touch, I want somebody who will spend some time, not cum an go in a heated rush.
    (pointer sisters) They should know. Don't ask men how to make women cum. Ask women. That's what I did.

    One last thing, be prepared for her to become an apostrophe s. She will want to own you. consider this .. Jane is John's. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by gumball:
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    Don't attack the pumpum be gentle and you will be surprised to know how quickly she cums.</STRONG>

    God that word makes me cringe <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    Originally posted by gumball:
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    A good nice gran mean yes do it some more.
    </STRONG>

    Isn't sex with your Gran illegal? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    Originally posted by gumball:
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    One last thing, be prepared for her to become an apostrophe s. She will want to own you. consider this .. Jane is John's. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Umm, yeah

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pumpum hey? thats a new 1. intresting <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    most girls dont orgasm thru sex

    well who am i to say
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by gumball:
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    A good nice gran mean yes do it some more.

    </STRONG>

    I'm sure <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    What an interesting chap <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girls need clitoral stimulation rather than vaginal stimulation to cum other wise it does't work. this is very hard to achieve during normal sex though.
    I HATE that word it just really doesn't do it for me! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to be honest i think ive only ever come once thru sex an ive had it alot

    its not ur fault
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont get embaressed they prob feel the same as u just think how much ur both enjoying the sex <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well this is a good one I'll put my 2 cents in. First of all no girl is the same. I've had pretty decent results in making girls cum, but there was a girl a year and a half ago that I couldn't help. We only tried about five times and she said she had never come so close and I could believe it cause she kept wanting to try again and again b/c she said she was right on the verge of cuming. Anyway, some girls cum only to oral, some to intercourse and some to both and some to none. I do believe with proper mindset and chemistry you can break the norms. I would like to believe size at least helps as does foreplay and the ability to last a substantial amt of time. I will say that drunken one night stands should not intemidate you b/c you haven't had time to know her needs and she may not be completely at ease yet. But if your dating someone and can't make them cum I would suggest this: Find out what makes her cum and if she has even had orgasms. Spend an evening at her place b/c she is comforatable there. share about two bottles of wine so that everyone is relaxed. Talk and kiss a little and put on nice music and take your time. Let her guess that sex is in the agenda but rushing into it is not so she has plenty of time to mentally anticipate it. Then get her on the bed and offer her a back massage only taking her top off and break out the oil or lotion. Once into it a ways take off her pants but not her panties and maybe take off your shirt. Keep it up but this time include her legs and butt and lean over to kiss her neck so your body slips against the lotion on her body. Then take off your pants(not underwear) and her panties. This way she knows your not quite there yet and she yearns even more. Now include her pleasure spot with hands and then orally but never for too long. Always go back to her back and neck as a bit of a tease. Do this a few minutes take of your boxers and do it some more. Finally, you should be ready to enter her. You'll be able to tell how excited she is by the ease in which you can slide it in. Last about five to seven minutes find a rhythmatic chemistry and hopefully things will work out. sorry so lengthy but orgasm can't be rushed
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