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So what's *socially acceptable* ?
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I kno it sounds bad but my b/f and i r quite intimate in public sometimes, not like doing n e thing in particular but always have our arms round each other n kissing...
thing is at a party or something i sometimes get the feeling every1 there is annoyed n they all start saying 'oi! get a room!'
i've already heard all the stories of ppl having sex in crowded rooms etc but i think most ppl will agree that that really isnt nice at all for the other ppl there, cos i bet they do notice - but is there an unspoken rule - i mean, how far can u go when there r other ppl there? and also, how can i say 2 him, if my friends r obviously annoyed, *not now!*
I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...
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the "get a room" comments are prob only jokes. I sat that to my mates all the time... normally in an american accent due to Phoebe commonly sayin it on friends! lol
Personally i think kissing hugging, and a little groping is fine in public, but anything more should be kept private between the two people involved.
It really depends on the people your with and if they are single or not a lot of the time. As for a "socially acceptable" level... why dont u ask your friends if it really is bothering them, and what is/isnt accptable???
At least then youl know when to stop!! .. And of course its ok to say "not now!!"
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hey Carriage thats an interesting analogy but parents r usually a horrible topic n e way - comparing to friends would prob be better but i can c what u're getting at.
and chocaholic maybe u don't like doing n e thing in public but maybe u've never been like i have - sometimes the 2 of u just get into a world of ure own and u don't care what's going on around u...
I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...
Choc xxx
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soz choc, just saying - sometimes u don't care that much and it takes other ppl 2 point out that they r there lol!
didnt mean2 tell u what u felt, just pointing out that sometimes u don't mind, but yeah not actually *groping* my boyfriend, just hugging and kissing.
hope u all aren't too disgusted...
I used to be schizophrenic, but we're OK now...