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Kind embarassing but I need help

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been going out with my girlfriend for about a 5 months now and we've been having sex for 2 months. I can easily get her to have an orgasm but I have yet to reach my climax! I am starting to feel like less of a man and my girlfriend thinks I am not attracted to her. Please someone help me!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    games...get kinky, its always a good time
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mayb ur concentrating too hard on her and not urself!! talk 2 her and try makin sex more excitin!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I aggree with the above post. Try different positions, different and prolonged foreplay etc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had the same problem mate, she even caught me looking at my watch before we got down to the business. If you are still going for an hour and a half then that's a talent, all the ladies will be impressed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont wank, you should be full to bursting <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha funny pic
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try not having sex in a public place. Or have it where you are, most comfortable.
    I had sex on my living room floor and didn't cum for a an hour and half went to the bedroom and took 5 minutes.
    Try to relax when your at it amd enjoy it dont worry bout making her cum, i know it is wonderful when you do as you know you've done something right, but after that concerntraite on your self!

    Be selfish!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> get a gf that isnt a minger!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do it in public places, it usually did turn me and my Ex gf on.

    Adam
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why do guys always think girls love a man that can keep it up for hours? My ex used to be able to put off cumming and we'd be banging away for a couple of hours. God, it was so BORING. I never used to orgasm and it felt like a waste of time.
    it's good that your girlfriend enjoys it but you need to sort this out: she probly thinks you're not enjoying it. Definitely make sure you're relaxed and comfortable and in the mood. Concentrate on yourself a bit more I reckon.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe get your gf to dress up in tight or kinky clothing?

    Adam
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by oohlalar:
    <STRONG>why do guys always think girls love a man that can keep it up for hours? My ex used to be able to put off cumming and we'd be banging away for a couple of hours. God, it was so BORING. I never used to orgasm and it felt like a waste of time.</STRONG>

    If you never used to orgasm then it wasn't good sex. Whether it lasted 5 minutes or 5 hours doesn't change bad sex to good sex. It simply made bad sex last longer.

    But if he'd been skilled enough that you were absolutely on cloud nine for every second of it, wouldn't you want it to last as long as possible?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Girls consider you as a god send! nothin is worse than a quick squirter!!! but this is also a problem ur not gettin your joy!

    RESOLVE...

    a) Prolongued Foreplay and NEVER forget the afterplay.
    b)Dont wank! or at least dont wank the day you think your gonna get laid (if poss limit to no wanking 3 days previous!!... this is the time it takes to get a sack load!)
    c)drink lots of milk!
    d)Different positions places etc
    e)act out fantasies... thats gotta work!!
    f)Dont stop after she comes once! go for more before you shoot your load!
    G)just cos she burst doesnt mean you have too!

    DONT WORRY BOUT IT MATE... lets face it if you split up with her then she gonna tell all her friends (if she hasnt already!!!) that your like a duracell battery!!

    Tell her what YOU like! When you like somethin in a particular way let her know... if she knows it pleases you then she will stick at it instead of just goin at it for the sake of it!!!

    GOOD LUCk
    NOMAD
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