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a bit woried......

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im 19 and ive never had sex. Ive tickled some flap and got head but that was way back when i was 16. last time i got a snog was about 5 months ago now, i think im going mad. ive put on loads of weight in the past 6 months aswll (around 4 stone) which dosent help. Im not great looking but i feel im worthy of a half decent bird. but cos ove never had sex im scared i wont perform, especially if im doing it with a girl whos had it before, PLEASE HELP!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well when the time comes just tell her You havent done it yet, She should be ok with that.
    More over she'll train you into what SHE likes. And the chances are you'll do better for her than a guy whos 'had' someone else and trys that technique on her!

    Or go buy yourself a book. I read my parents "the art of loving" at 15 (and got caught)Despite the 70's hair do's nothing has changed since then (as far as sex goes) it paid off cos the first time I had sex she did 'come'.

    As for your weight dont wotty with diet books and plans, Just cut out the bad stuff and do some running, or swiming is great cos it aint strenous and if bloody good at buring calories!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers pal <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mah!

    Some people are virgins at gone 20. It's only cause ur mates will be saying: "And thats number 48 for the Cassa Nova"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mother and father is a virgin if that is any condolense <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mother and father is a virgin if that is any condolense

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It seems surprising but its cos i smoke hash every night and used to get really greedy with food when i got the munchies - I don't eat alot during the day. I put it on so fast ive got bright red stretch marks on my belly and arms - its well embarraing - i was quite slim about 6 months ago!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u know, i was only joking about the mum and dad thing!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont get yourdelf down about it honey nobody is perfect and there is somebody for everyone in the world. and anyway i know this is what most people say but: its whats on the inside that counts. ok just believe that and you will go far honey
    hope that helped
    xxxxx
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey there are a lot of blokes i know who would kill for a beer belly! a lot of girls i know too they like beer bellies, something to cuddle up to they say... personally i dont have one, but i wouldnt let it get me down if i did.

    i went through a stage where i stopped exercising and i piled on a few pounds, didnt like it much but i got a lot of attention from girls. i started working out again and now i am happy with my physique. if your worried, join the local gym or do some simple exercises at home.. puch ups, sit ups running swimming etc.... the weight will soon go and you will b left with a body your happy with!

    leaving you ultimately with more self confidence!

    cae9
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