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does behind hurt?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
If someone takes you from behind, doesn't that hurt??

And does it hurt more the first (few) time( s ), or not at all, or every time?


EDIT: Also, any good positions to do this?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not sure, you should aim this question to the girls really.

    I think it’s nice personally, doing some bitch doggie style ;):p

    *I would image in hurts the first time if you're tight or a virgin*

    Try it, tell him to go slow at first.

    I bet after a few more times, you’ll be begging him to stick it deeper and fuck your brains out
    :p:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: does behind hurt?
    Originally posted by Zombie
    If someone takes you from behind, doesn't that hurt??
    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm

    harmless, i fink Zombie is asking about anal sex, hmm i fink you should ask the girls on this,and im a virgin anyway so i wouldnt be able to answer your question anyway, even if from the person doing its perspective
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am asking the girls, but guys can answer the position thing as well... Or maybe their girlfriends told them if it was painful or not...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry ive never done it before, but would really like to try it.

    Also does anyone know how many times about you can do it doggie style before you become incontenental (cant spell that but when you start pooing yourself)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sxy bunny grl
    Sorry ive never done it before, but would really like to try it.

    Also does anyone know how many times about you can do it doggie style before you become incontenental (cant spell that but when you start pooing yourself)
    I think you mean incontinent - which I am sure (please correct me if I am wrong people!) refers to involuntary peeing.

    Also, 'doggy style' does not really refer to the position you are in when you have anal sex, it is a position in which you have normal penetrative sex, only the man enters you from behind.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but iYe maybe i used the rong word:confused: but someone told me that if you do it up the bum to many times then u cant control ur bowel?how many times do you do it up the bum before this happens?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sxy bunny grl
    but iYe maybe i used the rong word:confused: but someone told me that if you do it up the bum to many times then u cant control ur bowel?how many times do you do it up the bum before this happens?

    Stupid internet wiped original post. pah.


    in summary.

    1. always wondered the above. always on the back of my mind.

    2. Penetrated from behind. Does hurt a tiny bit maybe the first time you do it, but not noticably. After a bit, you just want it deeper than ever before!! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: hmm
    Originally posted by LonDoNErcHriS85
    harmless, i fink Zombie is asking about anal sex

    I know:p ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes unless you are REALLY relaxed and use lots of lubricant then it can be absolute agony. If you are perfectly relaxed and do it right, then it shouldnt hurt too much, and if it does, then its in a nice way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    yes unless you are REALLY relaxed and use lots of lubricant then it can be absolute agony. If you are perfectly relaxed and do it right, then it shouldnt hurt too much, and if it does, then its in a nice way.

    *memories :lol::lol:

    I MUST have been relaxed :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Not sure, you should aim this question to the girls really.

    I think it’s nice personally, doing some bitch doggie style ;):p

    :p:naughty:

    That quote sickens me, especially the "bitch" thing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by davedavidson


    That quote sickens me, especially the "bitch" thing

    So? what do you want me to do about it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by davedavidson
    That quote sickens me, especially the "bitch" thing

    Oh no thats his favourite word :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sxy bunny grl
    someone told me that if you do it up the bum to many times then u cant control ur bowel?how many times do you do it up the bum before this happens?

    Well I'm no doctor, but I'm pretty sure that's a myth.

    Anyhoo, if you're talking about regular non-anal doggy sex, then yes it can hurt. Usually this is due to the angle, which you may be able to correct so that it doesn't feel like he's bloodgeoning your uterus. :D Is he a lot taller than you? That's commonly the problem. If so, try a neat trick I discovered: grip his legs with your own so that your knees are actually off the bed. Or you can get him to raise you off the bed himself by the hips, but the first one works better, or a combo of the two. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was talking about anal sex. Normal doggy style sex shouldnt hurt anymore than any other position although it is slightly tighter that way. Anal sex certainly hurts if not done right, although can be fantastic if the woman is completely relaxed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Britney


    Penetrated from behind. Does hurt a tiny bit maybe the first time you do it, but not noticably. After a bit, you just want it deeper than ever before!! :D

    LIES!!!!! ALL LIES!!!!!!
    Zombie think poo going backwards!!!!!!
    my ex once tried to do it to me once thinking that i wouldnt notice that it was goign up the wrong hole and that i would really enjoy that spliting pain in my ass!!
    i think he's seen WAY to many pornos
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wow could u imagine that! up the down pipe! but then again they do say
    "if the reds blocking the pink, pot the brown instead!!"
    lol! bt i still think its wierd!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no no
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Zella


    LIES!!!!! ALL LIES!!!!!!
    Zombie think poo going backwards!!!!!!
    my ex once tried to do it to me once thinking that i wouldnt notice that it was goign up the wrong hole and that i would really enjoy that spliting pain in my ass!!
    i think he's seen WAY to many pornos

    hahahhh. I dunno...didn't hurt with me. THink I was justtoo drunk to notice or care by then anyway!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :yes: yes yes, it does hurt. a lot. i was pissed out of my teeth when i did it, and i'd never do it again!
    suppose it's all down to preference and whether you're darin' or what, but that's my opinion!
    it's just wrongggggg lol ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    were you have normal penetrative sex, only the man enters you from behind, that doesnt hurt. well doesnt for me. never tried the other hole, dont fancy that niether does my boyf, thank goodness. but i have heard that anal can be a painful, probably recommend Lube.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First couple of times does hurt. After that its a nice pain, Use lots of lubricant and make sure when your b/f enters you he takes it nice and slow at first, don't let him start banging away from the offset. I enjoy :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm groovy baby. i dont hink my girl would appreciate it. she aint keen on it at all and really i think its pretty wierd to be entering the exit!
    but then again they do say
    "If The Reds Blocking The Pink,
    Pot The Brown Instead!
    !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive never had anal sex but during a 69 he slipped a finger in the exit ( it didnt hurt but i guess its alot smaller than a dick so it could b an idea 1st) and licked me out and rubbed my clit, it was the most amazing experiance i ever had..... shame we broke up a week later
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i might try it, but only with permission, i dont want her going off me now do I!:(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just do it b4 shes about 2 cum and make sure shes relaxed and it will make the O more powerful. well thats what i found with me ex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what an arsehole (sorry, no pun intended!) i hope you got rid of the bastard! i could never do that, if that happened i would stop, not carry on:no: , theres a diff between saying no and meaning carry on and saying no and meaning NO, did you use the right no?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well ive now tryed it up the bum, but it really REALLY hurt me, it was like a burning pain:( and it really hurt it made me go all hot and faint like and then i was nearly sick, and that was only after literally a minute! it really hurt, but i think that now "im broken in" i think i would try it again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It really just depends. If the guy just shoves it in there without any warning then yeah it stings like crazy and you can bleed but if he uses his fingers and lubrication then its fine. More than fine actually. Its great!
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