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Why Do most Girls Think all Lads are interested in Is Sex?
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Right this really really annoys me, I dont see my g/f alot cos we live like an hour apart and she thinks that I only want to see her for sex etc this really really annoys me because she forgot i might actually want to see her etc, what are you lots views on this?
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Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
But maybe its because everything we say and everything we do, when we are on a date, is because want to get into her knickers.
"Her hair reminds me of a warm, safe place
Where, as a child I'd hide"
http://www.livejournal.com/~manofkent
i think guys think about sex a lot, or a bit too much for their own good. but at the end of the day, we girls think of sex a lot too, just not as much as guys.
however, im pretty sure that most guys nowadays are sensitive and actually know how to control their hormones and to treat a woman with a bit of respect. the boards here shows that. (well, some of them.) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
next time you are talking to your girlfriend. just tell her that ur not after sex and tell her to stop stereotyping you. admit that u think of sex a lot (if it's true) but ur only being a normal guy! but also assure her that u care a lot for her and that ur not gonna do absoluately anything that she may not want to do. yet. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
virginity is like a balloon, one prick & it's gone 4ever.
sex is like a tub of pringles, once you pop, you can't stop.
life is like a dick, when it's hard, FUCK IT!
when you see her next why dont you serjest going somewhere were it is not that easy to have sex!
like you have different girls, you have different boys, more similarity than you would expect
yeah you are right there we do and yes we dont show it as much as boys do and im sorry but boys have a reputation of always wanting sex!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
i must say, i totally agree, but girls tend not to use lads as much!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
*waits for alza to comment*
I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
why would she think that if you never even have sex when you see her?
something about no rhythm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif">
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nah you wouldnt have been talking to anyone that would know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif">
shhh!
the sign he carries, says "rent a friend" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif">
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
But then, another instinct often kicks in. The instinct to pair-up and protect the woman he has inseminated and the common offspring produced.
This is a trap a lot of guys fall into. They THINK they are just in it for the pleasure because their raging sex drives push them into it in the first place.
But then, other feelings take hold. They fall hopelessly in love.
Women are more choosy at the start. After all, they must carry and care for the child that comes from a sexual union.
Once they have this child, it becomes the main focus. The fella is secondary.
Not so for the man. Now he is the one that must work to be included in the circle of love.
It is the nature of the sexes. Understand it, do your part and it won't bite you in the ass.