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the new swinging

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I read an article in a magazine yesterday about the new 'lifestyle' trend to hit america. If you imagine the term 'swingers' people tend to think of middle aged woman who husband swap. But now in america they have swinging clubs where young people get it on with the nearest guy anywhere they can find then move on to the next!!
It is most popular with young business woman who go there after work to relax. In fact its such a big thing that they have carrie from 'sex and the city' visiting one in the next series.
So my question is 1)what do u know about this and
2)what do u think about it?


After reading the article to my friend she was horrified but the first thought i had was that if the girls are having sex there in a public place then surely this gets rid of the risk of taking a stranger into ur home where anything can happen. what do you guys think??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell me where they are I'm all for it. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have people forgotten about AIDS? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think an orgy is the best way to relax after a hard day, I think I will stick to a nice cup of tea and Neighbours, somewhat safer. And less energy needed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PussyKatty:
    <STRONG>I think I will stick to a nice cup of tea and Neighbours, somewhat safer. And less energy needed.</STRONG>

    My Hero! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So its abit like a one-night stand?

    Yes the girl is safer but she also going to be watched by the rest of the group, how many people like being watched when having sex?

    Also it wouldn't really work that well because I can bet there would be more men then woman at these clubs, also I thought Swingers were couples??

    If these business woman want sex why not get a male Escort(sp?)

    Also it reminds me a bit of the 60's & 70's with all the free love, would you have to pay for this club? If so wouldn't it be the same a man paying for sex of a hooker if all the woman want is sex from the club????
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldnt want people watching

    *covers her self*

    i feel use i think its just sick wot some people will do just to get off

    sorry if i offened some people its just how i feel

    *puts on another top* <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How old do you have to be to join in this mass orgy? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Maybe if its full of teens about my age, i'd like to join in <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    *Aint no perv* - Just would like to fill my fantasies out <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If its something people want to do then its cool that they have a venue and oppertunity to do it safly.
    Just straight shagging in front of people...well i think its nore mbarassing for the people looking. I mean, how can you make sure that you avoid eye contact with the participents?
    Me and my g/f are trying to get the courage / motivation to go to Rubber ball, or torture garden. Being in a heavy Sub scene in front of people.. i think that would be harder on the nerves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i would definately give it a go...though im not sure id like to risk catching little things like...oh i dunno, maybe AIDS, syphillis (probably spelt wrong) and other wonderful STD's.
    i quite like parties but i prefer the ones where my dick doesnt fall off or turn green and blue when i get home thanks <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    ~dappa
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dappa_don:
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    i quite like parties but i prefer the ones where my dick doesnt fall off or turn green and blue when i get home thanks <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> </STRONG>

    'Nuff said I think.

    Seriously though, from what I've heard about places like this (which is, by the way, very little, but I do have one friend in Chicago who is, shall we say, free with her emotions), you need to have a certificate or some such from your doctor giving you a clean bill of health before you can go to one of these places.

    Personally, I don't think I'd like it (hell, I don't like looking at my own body. Why should anyone else one to look at it?), but I guess everyone has their own tastes...

    CD <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's gotta be said, Americans are fucked up and weird. It's like they must push the limits just to be induvidual, which is fair enough I suppose but they take it all so seriously.

    Freaks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There are some clubs in Los Angeles. One on Western Ave. YOu have to enter from the alleyway. And you must be introduced. The bouncer is HUGE.

    Crazy little club.

    I have never been to place like that before. Open use of drugs and sex behind these small enclosures with thick velvet curtains.

    I want to go back and participate this time. I was a little too timid and fucked up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by higgins:
    <STRONG>I was a little too timid and fucked up.</STRONG>

    <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    IMHO, you would have to be fucked up to go to something like that! Or if you weren't before, it would seriously fuck you up afterwards.

    It sounds very very stupid and reckless. If I had a death wish I'd choose a faster cleaner way to die, thanks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WoW funny thing is now these club are no longer in the USA, they over here now!!!

    I was reading the "Evening Standard" last night on the train home and came across a 2 page spread on these clubs in the UK

    okay It cost £50 to join plus paying on your first night they also change the meeting place every time so you only find out by E-mail 2 or 3 hours before it starts

    The 'Evening Standard' sent in to under cover reports to see what it was like, its far to long to tell you their findings.

    It seem the club that the Evening Standard reports joined is called The 'Toucan Club' which hired out "Courts" in london(Its a wine bar) for the night. Well everyone starts of talking and drinking then have a bite to eat then it says that one couple 'get it on' then everyone else follows suit

    It also say in the newspaper that the age for these club has gone down from 40's to mids 20's and they wont let you in if your fat,small or not doing well for your self, Seem they also only want smart poeople as well

    Also it say that there are more(much more)!! men then woman at these 'partys' so you can bet these woman will be in for a rough ride <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Still its seem very sad and its just like paying for sex really but your doing it infront of poeple <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Anyway i just thougt i would share that bit of info with you, you got to love the Evening Standard <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless:
    how many people like being watched when having sex?

    i dont think that i would mind being watched
    hhehehehe <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by cokephreak:
    <STRONG>If its something people want to do then its cool that they have a venue and oppertunity to do it safly.
    Just straight shagging in front of people...well i think its nore mbarassing for the people looking. I mean, how can you make sure that you avoid eye contact with the participents?
    Me and my g/f are trying to get the courage / motivation to go to Rubber ball, or torture garden. Being in a heavy Sub scene in front of people.. i think that would be harder on the nerves.</STRONG>

    ive been to the rubber ball twice, about 6 years ago, i was never that much into that sort of scene but it was a good laugh, you dont have to be into S & M, just dress up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Small? I'm small, what's wrong with being small? Kylie is little too, would they turn her away? Or do they mean *small* ahem male members? Not that I want to go anyway!
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