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First Time.....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi. Well the deal is that after 10 months my gf is ready for sex and we are planning to in July. I was just wondering if you could help me as to how to make it good for her. Up to know Ive fingered her and that but thats about it. Is there any good ways to make her cum, not necessarily the first time, but just whenever. If anyones just got any tips thye can pass on or anything that will help Id be so grateful coz I want to make it as good as I can. Thanks

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for the first time make sure ur both comfatable and theres no risk of being disturbed, use lots of forplay and make sure u both want it and take it from there it should go fine !!! fairy_pie

    a bird can love a fish but where would they live???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a six inch tounge, and being able to breath through you ears might help.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try not to plan it too much... just get together and start playing with each other... in fact, you can completely skip sex if you like. Foreplay is much better imho! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh wow, isn't kicker decriptive <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    lol I reckon, just be yourself on the matter. She wants to do it with you because she loves you and as long as you show her how you feel from the heart as well as in the pants, you will both do fine. If pleasuring her is the main thing though, go ahead and take all the others advice as well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    for the first time together, the operative words are nice and easy. take ur time and be very attentive. take mental notes when you get a good reaction for something thing you are doing and a bad reaction for the things she doesn't like. sex is not an exact science dude, there are no magic techniques. you know the basics, now all you do is learn from trial and error.

    and those mental notes you take will help you as you continue to build you're relationship and sex life. just remember, this first time doesn't have to be the be all end all event of your relationship. you guys will get better as you do it more regularly. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck dude.
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