Big V

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Im bout 2 loose my virginety 2 my bf but im not sure wether 2 shave/cut etc my pubic hair, i dunno weather 2 leave it as it is!

Wot shall i do??????? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

Please help!

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Originally posted by Sexy Becki:
<STRONG>Wot shall i do??????? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

Please help!</STRONG>

'Sexy' Becki, if I were you (*impure thought*) then I'd like to make the big experience as special as possible. Shave yourself into a lightening flash, that'll be so niche'. Your boyfriend will love it. Honest.

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to be honest i dont think your partner will really care - just do what u like, i would recommend waxing cos shaving gets itchy

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Sound advice, I also reckon you should just stay as you are. Being only 14 I doubt that you've got much down there to worry about yet so just leave it natural. For now at least. <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">

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Originally posted by The Ghost Of Kurt Cobain:
<STRONG>Sound advice, I also reckon you should just stay as you are. Being only 14 I doubt that you've got much down there to worry about yet so just leave it natural. For now at least. <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

DONT HAVE SEX, at 14 you are too young. If you want to know the conscquences then go here:
I'm a dumb ass

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You have to decide whether, if you 'trim' yourself, you'll be more, or less, self-conscious about him seeing you.

Bear in mind also, that if for any reason you need to see your doctor in the next few weeks, you may feel a lot more self-conscious about it all if you've trimmed your pubic hair.

Your BF probably isn't going to care whether you're shaved or not - he's gonna be too damn busy concentrating on the fact he's seeing one at all to worry about much else. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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Pubic hair is not important, what IS important is using proper contraception, or you WILL be in big trouble! K

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Originally posted by Bunnykins:
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You can't even spell virginity correctly, are you sure you're ready to sacrafice it?</STRONG>

/me politely refrains from telling anyone how to spell sacrifice. <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

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Just wanted to add an ancillary point since most has been covered.

There are in fact (and I am one of them) that dont overly likey shaved or even partly shaved/ trimmed pubic hair. I think there is an eroticism in its natural form. So its not worth assuming that long is bad (unless of course it runs half way down your leg - which I doubt).

However, as Black Knight said (and for those newbies out there he is a wise man from what I have seen) chances are you may well feel more self conscious if you do, he certainly will be too self conscious and/or eager too notice on his first visit.

But number one rule - sex is fun so relax. We all have hang ups, its learning to accept them and relax which will make life fun. If your partners caring theres nothing to worry about and if hes not, then steer clear.

Smile and take care.

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If it will make you feel more comfortable, then trim it slightly with a pair of scissors...dont get rid of it, just neaten up the straggly hairs <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

But think very carefully...maybe youd be better off taking things one step at a time, dont be expecting to have sex so young if you aint even seen each other before. Just be careful (USE A CONDOM) and be very sure before you do anything.

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Hey!

Wow wow wow slow down becki because you are really only 14 and to be right its not the right age to be having sex... You have to think is it you or your boyfriend really wanting the sex part of your relationship and ask yourself are you ready! But if you decide to have sex then just trim away loose hairs. But at your age your not really ready yet for sex... USE A COMDOM AND BE CAREFULL <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">