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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Help!, Ive never fingered a lass before and I need your help as my g/f wants me to finger her, pls advise me on what to do touch etc pls!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Forgot to add, Shes never been fingered <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi there,
    firstly remember a woman is very sensitive down there so no rough stuff! gentle carressing with a wet fingertip is best. If she is going to be totally knickerless then it makes the job easier than up a knicker leg or down the top of her knockers because the angle of approach is different!

    The best thing is to make sure you find somewhere you can both lie down and strip off starkers and just observe each others bodies and curves and bumps etc. Knowing what something looks like makes it a darn sight easier to explore!
    I like my man to lick me all over my pussy first so it is nice and wet otherwise it can get sore if you start probing when its still dry.
    Get your head in her muff and explore the folds of her pussy with your tongue(this can drive her wild and far better than a poke in my opinion!)
    Then you can probe her gently with your finger. Try your middle finger first. A slow up-and-down movement at first and don't be affraid to ask her if it feels okay. Remember her G-spot is about three inches inside and on the roof of her vagina(bellyside not down towards her bum!)Gently rubbing or tapping this area will excite her a good deal. Ask her if she needs more fingers in her, let her dictate the pace and don't be offended if she asks you not to do something.
    The clitoris is located at the top of her 'slit' amongst the pubic hair and is like a tiny erect 'button' or miniature penis and is VERY sensitive but you should find this if you give her a good licking to start. Open her 'flaps' (labia lips) and you'll see it at the top. DON'T rub too hard, I find gentle caressing is more sensitive. Licking her clitoris while fingering her should drive her wild man!
    I believe a good lick and a visual exploration is a good starter before you get 'hands on'!
    Good look
    p.s. Do you get a blow job in return? If not she's selfish so ditch her! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well obviously u need 2 move ur hand 'down there' and just play gently!! do wot cums naturally 2 u!! if ur doin good job she'll let u no and u can learn wot u both like!! its not meant 2b a chore - but if ur worried talk 2 her!! let her no that ur not sure and she cud guide u etc!!
    good luck
    xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey all Thanks for the advice it Rawks and im gonna have fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">, im new here but im looking forward to getting to know u all,

    Bye for now

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You also need to consider the fact that it is her first time so she may be tense and may be a stranger to how the pleasurous feeling should be so the first time may be slow unless she masturbates then that is a great help,she will give you tips.If not the first time will be to do with relaxing with each other and exploring.As time goes on things will get easier and so you are more open to let yourself go and be turned on rather than wondering what should be going on.Go with the flow.
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