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ejaculation times question...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey all <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
just had a thought hit me and its beginning to do my head in.
ok so when i masturbate it takes me 15-30 minutes to ejaculate...but im worried about the future.
what i meant to ask (i dont really know how to say it) was "does it take the same amount of time to ejaculate by penetration as it does to ejaculate by masturbation"?
sorry to bother people with what seems to be a stupid question but im worrying that although it takes me 15-30 minutes with masturbation, when im finally inside a lady i will last about 5 minutes.
is there different factors involved? like tightness of her vagina or even the fact that theres a (in my opinion of course) highly attractive lady and the thrill of sex etc rather than just normal masturbation?

any help appreciated <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

~dappa

ps...before anyone says it, yes i have done a search, but nothing dealt with my query...just premature ejaculation, how to last longer etc. thanks again <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    with my previous bf's i always found that they cum faster through penetration than by masterbating. one of them said its cos a lad gets more arroused when hes inside me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    with my previous bf's i always found that they cum faster through penetration than by masterbating. one of them said its cos a lad gets more arroused when hes inside me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My bf comes faster when inside me, he told me it is cos it feels lovely inside me much nicer than just him rubbing it.
    Wank off beffor entering then you will last alot longer thats what my bf does...well I do it for him <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks a lot
    *hugs to all the girls who replied and helped him out*

    well, actually im a bit too ugly to go hugging anyone (might be contagious <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    ~dappa
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Dappa <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I just wanted to say I wouldnt worry at all, I thinks its much the same for either sex..
    I masturbate (quite often)& it always takes me longer to cum by myself than when I'm with a guy..I guess thats what they mean when they say, you cant beat the real thing <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    Doesnt matter anyway, if you last 2mins or 15 just relax, start again when your ready & go with the flow...
    Take care <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 09-05-2002: Message edited by: 'girl_down_under' ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dappa_don:
    <STRONG>any help appreciated <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Just get out there and practice .....

    *thinks should possibly make some more constructive comment*

    Okay okay, for most men the time does vary and generally first times are quite short if you catch my drift? It's just one of those practice makes perfect and relaxation tends to help too type of things.

    *worries is making no sense at all*

    I'm not a guy but from what they tell me most first times are crap. Premature ejaculation is common and pretty much to be expected. Don't worry about it. I'm sure that when the time comes the person you're with will understand and that the more you have sex the longer you will last (eventually).

    Now stop worrying and just enjoy the ride ....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Look i feel sorry for you
    Try fore play first dont just dive straight in there it will help you to slow yourself down.
    Try this aswell when your about to cum in the lass pull out staright away sit for a few minutes then start again your dick will realise what your trying to do and probably cum to a comparamise with you
    Give it a go and good luck <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Laura123:
    <STRONG>and probably cum to a comparamise with you</STRONG>

    No pun intended huh? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You should cum faster when penetrating because you should be more excited with the person your with. Don't go rushing in there do fore play and get relaxed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gems:
    <STRONG>

    No pun intended huh? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    You might have to explain pun to her, and make sure she doesn't think it's correctly spelled pone.

    Hmm...obscurenessness. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mate, take it from a bloke who knows, if it takes u 15-30 mins to cum having a wank, depending on speed and pressure of course, then u will make alot of ladies very happy, cause it takes longer, alot longer haveing sex, really it does, dont worry at all mate, be proud
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with naughty little angel
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