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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
well ive been seeing this gurl on and off for well over a year now. we've had many a snog over the time but never gone any further. well lately ive realised i really like her and we've been seeing alot of each other. last nite she came round and we ended up on my bed and things went a little further,and i was like 'wow, cool' but the thing is, she was really rough with her hands, almost violent, and it really wasnt that enjoyable. so what shud i do? how can i tell her this? i really want to take this further but i feel this cud be a problem along the way.... any advice???

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiiya!!!
    well 1stly tell her wot u like!! when she is doin ''stuff'' to u praise her but also guide her!! my bf guides me and lets me no wen i do somat he likes!!!
    just relax nd talk 2 each otha a little more - learn wot u both like and prefer!
    good luck
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if u keep it going with her, she'll get to know what turns u on and stuff, and u'll get to know what turns her on.

    dare i suggest that maybe she likes it rough, if that's what she's using to turn u on, maybe u should take that as ur clue to use it to turn her on, if that makes ANY sense!

    see hippy chick, i CAN give advice when i want to .

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just don't feel nervous about telling her how your feeling. She'll need a little time to get used to how you most enjoy being touched...
    Be calm about it thou, don't tell her she's doing it wrong, just suggest how and let the results speak for themselves! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Good luck man

    Girls need beauty a lot more than brains because guys can see a lot better than they can think.
    Irish Proverb
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't mistake inexperience for Sadomasochistic tendencies.....

    Turtles dirty mind playing up.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm...lurker? or someone in disguise? ARGH!

    and welcome, well done for signing up. but somehow i think u already know me!!

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well thats gr8 4u turtle im glad u can manage 2 move away from ur sarcastic moods now and again and help those in need!!
    u shud b proud!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just let her know you prefer to be caressed and that a guys manhood likes to be treated with gentle tender loving care. firm but gentle.

    You should also let her know that she can communicate her likes and dislikes to you, its a two way thing. A learning process.

    Let her know you are willing to communicate. She shouldn't take offence at this if you take a subtle approach.

    really, just what everyone else has said <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hippy Chick:
    well thats gr8 4u turtle im glad u can manage 2 move away from ur sarcastic moods now and again and help those in need!!
    u shud b proud!

    *wonders about hte sarcasm involved there*

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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