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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hello
1st of all im charnz little sister just usin her name im becca. well ive bin goin out wiv my bf for a while now. hes not a virgin and i am. he dont wanna hav sex wiv me cus he says its not worth the hastle at our age.is it because im a virgin or just dont he wanna have sex wiv me. he says he loves me.
hope u can help and i hope that made sence!
luv xbeccax <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hes a strange guy <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Have you ever thought that he is a virgin? And maybe to shy to admit it, and doesnt want to do it as hes scared or worried? How old are you both by the way?

    From what i can hear, this is the case, maybe he's just worried or something, talk to him. Thats basically all i can say and or think of <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe you should talk to him about it? It's not really the sort of question we can answer.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Makes sense once you decipher all the text talk.
    Why dont you just ask him why! Maybe he thinks your not ready and if you say he loves you he must have his reasons!

    Just talk to him. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we r both 16!! i know he aint a virgin cus i know his ex-gf. we hav done most otha things just not sex do you think its sumthing to do with me? luv xbeccax <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What has actually happend? Did you get really close to intercourse then he said that he didnt want too?

    Maybe hes having a problem them, or something sexually thats effected him in the past?

    God knows, theirs so many possiblities but i regret to tell you that i dont know them all.

    Best bet is to just talk to him, ask him what you just asked us. If you've done everything but, you should be quite close, and that you can talk about anything.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *falls off chair*

    Right, now you've done it. I had loads of good advice lined but, but I just knocked it out of me.

    Well, that's what I'm telling you anyways.

    *wanders off muttering about the world getting stranger*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Becca darlin' i think that maybe he is shy and doesnt want you to know he's a virgin if he is that is!
    i think you should be upfront and say to him "and ask whats wrong"
    i think you should be honest and ask why he might not want to? if he gets all shady then you know its not you, and he's lacking in confidence.
    i hope you are ready to have sex? because maybe he realised after he had sex with his ex that he wasnt ready for it and thats why he's being the way he is.
    make the right choice and tell us what happened.
    goodluck babe.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thnx everyone!
    i spoke to him <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and he sed its because he was forced into wiv his ex and he dont wanna rrush into anything. so im happy wiv that! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> luv xbeccax
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