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What do u prefer - fast or slow??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi, just wondered wot everyone prefered when getting off with someone. I prefer it to be slow but most guys I get off with go really fast untill I say something!! Do guys prefer it fast then + girls slow?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I'm a girl and I'm with you.
    Definitely slow!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like it slow to until it gets a bit more heated and then i speed up a bit but it deoends on the guy. the worst thing has to be opening mouths too far. it just gets slobbery.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Slow...Slow...Slow...FastFastFastFast...Slow...Slow...Slow...FastFastFastFast...Slow...Slow...Slow...FastFastFastFast...

    Now cont this for about an hr or so <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    * Slow means very slow and long, fast is to build partner up then slow down again VERY nice. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i prefer slow and so far most of my boyfriends have prefered slow aswell. unless they were only doing it to please me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Slow at first then faster when things get more heated!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i prefere it slow, but my previous bf's have all prefered it fast.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i love to have it slow then speed it up then slow with a tease of the clit then slow again then go faster and stay at a pace then slow down. Then finish both while going at a decent speed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am 21 and was recently seeing a guy of 30. when i suggested that we slow it down a bit he was actually genuinely surprised! he said it had never occurred to him and no-one had ever asked him to do that! and he looooved it! infact he was slightly annoyed afterwards that all this time he had never tried it! after that it was just slooow all the way. maybe you should just ask! i worked for me...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am a girl and I like it to be slow as well! I like it gentle too but sometimes my boyfriend is really fast and rough. Sometimes I say soemthing and sometimes I dont! It depends what the mood is like I suppose! I think sometimes you maybe have to compromise but most guys dont understand a girls needz! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    better be slow non of this fast crap <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I prefer it slow at first with gentle kissing and getting faster
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    slow, but driving it in really hard, then comoing all the way out really really slowly, then wait a second, build up the tension, and back in again, and yeah as others have said the occaisional really fast fuck can be breath taking, for than one reason <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    depends if shes on top ur not, i like it fast when im on top, and slow with her on top
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It turns me on more if i think about having sex slowly, than it does fast..I think wen blokes go fast its what they like best...althou after readin this maybe he was just um going for gold or summet!! But I'd definately say slow <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i like it slowly at first i think its more personal so u can touch each other and kiss and shit then speed up but not to fast so u feel the pleasure of wot ur doing then go abit faster until u both cum <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with maca slow at first then if it gets faster im game for it. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nothing makes me hotter or wetter better than a slow,sliding,sliding cock up my pussy.so i can feel the juices flowing and be all slippery and sloppy.love it messy and mind blowing,but slow and then when im really into it pick up the pace!!!!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aimz you sound like my kinda girl <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Shame that I've got a girlfriend.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    slow, then fast. slow reminds me of that sex scene in Top Gun...pretty steamy there.
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