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another question for the ladies

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
k, say uve been going out with someone quite awhile, a few months, a yr, longer, whatever, and u trust them, u have great sex, and ur in the middle of foreplay, ur both very excited, and perhaps a tad drunk, would an unexpected finger put softly up the ass, not very far, just a little, be repulsive and like "fuck off u perv?"
need somke help, cause im intrigued, and if it makes her even slightly happy, thern i wanna do it, cause i just wanna make her happy

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thanku

im a reasonable man, get off my case

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well like i say, id do it softly, and not very far in, its just a mate did it to his gf, and she quite liked it, and id lube up first of course.
    and if im willing to have her juices in my mouth, and all over my hand, i dont really care bout that
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont know why people are so repulsed by the thought of even mild anal stimulation. its not like the whole act of sex itself isnt messy. The anal opening (for those who seem unaware) is loaded with nerve endings and when stimulated can enhance orgasm for both men and women.

    Id suggest you just suggest it when your in the heat of passion (perhaps when you are telling each other fantasies and such) and see what her reaction to the idea is. If you are both drunk i would think she just might be game to try it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my bf tried to do this to me but i said no because i didnt like the idea. Thats me personally though and know that some girls like this. Give it a try but just be sensitive about it if she dont want to because it's not for everyone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok. ill try out all sorts off different positions, but that - no way! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    fingers un me ass or sex up me ass = NO!
    i just think its too disgusting and it wud b painful <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well my friend and her b/f do that to each other all the time even in the pub. that is probably not something you should do but if you think she will like it try it and if she doesnt like it im sure she wont freak out or finish with you because of it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd have to agree with Clandestine on that one.

    In the heat of the moment you never what she'll say. Lost my bearings one day and she actually enjoyed it, much to my surprise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is something some like some dont...
    After reading the messages I am suprised to see how many WOULDNT like it, when they havent even tried it.. I think it feels great, it has to be done gently but it turns me on alot.. I dont like to have anymore than a finger in there, I have also tried more & I have enjoyed it, but other times I havent, I guess it depends on your mood..
    As for trying it, why not try rubbing around the outside area first to see what sort of reaction she might have to it, I'm sure you will be able to tell from how she responds to whether or not she would want you to do it.. I dont ever remember being asked its something that just happened, if he did ask I probably would have got scared. He was gentle and didnt rush anything, once he started to rub that area, I had an idea what he wanted to do, but knew I could have stopped him if I wasnt comfortable, but I was curious..
    Then again I'll try anything once, theres no other way to see if you like something or not? true....
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    P.s.. as for the you dont know what might come out on your finger, I have been enjoying this for quite a while and not once has that happened.. Find out more about how things work before you come to that conclusion, its a passage way not a storage room, sorry I didnt know how else to put it <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well personally i wudn't like it if my b/f tried 2 do it 2 me! but that's my opinion! I say go with the flow! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers ladies, uve been very helpful, i might go for it this wknd, but i dunno, thanku tho, ur stars <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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