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Normal or not?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
After I have one orgasm, I'm TOTALLY unhornified. Just like that, I'm turned off. Is that normal? I mean, I still do stuff with guys even though I'm not turned on, but still. Normal or not?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    NORMAL <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Usually I have to wait at least 10 minutes before I want to do anything down there again, sometimes more...

    don't do anything with guys if you're not turned on and don't feel like it. They'll understand.

    An eye for an eye makes the world blind.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't think their is such a thing as "normal" when it comes to this.

    if your sex drive disappears after one orgasm, then that's how your body wants to deal with it crimson. so, i don't anything you're feeing is odd or wrong.

    now, i disagree with amadee here. (OMG this might be the first time ever <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">) in previous posts, i've always advised to the guys that if you get to orgasm before your girl, there are other ways to help her get there. i think part of the whole act of love is to bring pleasure to your partner too. so if you finish before he does, you may want to do stuff to make sure he's happy too. and it sounds like you do that out of consideration for him, and i think that's great.

    btw -- i love "unhornfied." great word crimson. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im still horny wen i ve orgasmed does that mean im not normal????

    a bird can love a fish but where would they live???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha, calvin's right i guess... sex etiquette is make sure both people come, if the girl comes first then they should make sure the guy does too... i guess i was assuming the guy had already come and she was just fooling around when there was no need to.

    and fairy pie, like calvin said there's really no such thing as "normal" or "not normal"... what crimson talked about happens to other people and what you talked about happens to other people too..

    argh, i've seemed to confuse people with this advice. sorry!

    An eye for an eye makes the world blind.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess, and plus there's the thing that it's really really hard to get me horny. Like, I get my period more often than i get horny, is that fucked up or what?!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    people's sex drives differ immensely. If it's something that's really bothering you, you may want to look into herbal suppliments....?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i get unhornified after an orgasm....

    and my sex drive has dropped to an all-time low lately (it's lower than it was when i was 3)

    but i'm a bloke, so i don't think it really counts.
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