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The Motherfucking Whore.
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I knew this was gonna fuckin happen.
Right, My ex is going out with a slut called Poppy, who has a history of cheatin, stealin boyf's and bein a get around.
Now, not only has the fucking bitch has cheated on MY ex, but she's cheated on him with HER ex who has a girlfriend.
AND THEY'RE ALL STILL TOGETHER.
I knew she was gonna hurt him. I knew it. And he wouldn't fucking listen.
What the fuck do I do... I know it's none of my business but I love him so much I can't cope with him being hurt by anyone, let alone that fucking whore.
Please Help, SweetLeaf X :mad: :mad: :mad:
Right, My ex is going out with a slut called Poppy, who has a history of cheatin, stealin boyf's and bein a get around.
Now, not only has the fucking bitch has cheated on MY ex, but she's cheated on him with HER ex who has a girlfriend.
AND THEY'RE ALL STILL TOGETHER.
I knew she was gonna hurt him. I knew it. And he wouldn't fucking listen.
What the fuck do I do... I know it's none of my business but I love him so much I can't cope with him being hurt by anyone, let alone that fucking whore.
Please Help, SweetLeaf X :mad: :mad: :mad:
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Try not to get too wound up hun, he'll realize what a player she is eventually and in the mean while all you can do really, is sit back and let them get on with it.
It may be difficult for you to see someone you love get hurt but if he won't listen to your warnings then there is nothing else you can do. At least you can say you tried.
He may think you are little strange if you carry on getting involved in his love life all the time, its good that you care about him by try backing a way a bit!
Try spending less time with him, and making other friends and even try going with other lads.
Like, when we broke up, the look in his eyes said it all... the pain, the love.
I know him too well, so i cant be ignorant and ignore it all.
I certainly cant ignore HER. I need to get revenge. I'm so angry its unfunny.
Sure it can hurt to see someone you care about being hurt and lied too, but you have to remember the awful way he dealt with your realtionship. They say that what goes around comes around, and in this case it seems to be true.
Really.
Let him get cheated on...probably what he deserves.
Lather, rinse, repeat.
All this stuff about wanting revenge - you'll come out of it looking like a complete idiot. Seriously. There is nothing even vaguely attractive about an obsessive female.
Yeah, it hurts, but god save some face here and get on with your life. A bit of self-respect wouldn't go amiss.
Hasn't anyone ever taught you about tact and diplomacy? i guess not...
SweetLeaf X
OK, so what do you *want* to hear?
He's not worth your time.
Spend the time you waste thinking about him, thinking about you. Look after number one.
Was that tactless?
People are just being straight with you.
But 15 months on I still care about her, I'd hate to see her get cheated on even though she's cheated on me. She's pregnant, her boyfriend hits her, but she goes back to him. But she doesn't listen to me, she thinks I'm a twat.
The guy she cheated on me with is a fucking bastard. And I don't say that about someone without good reason. He's the only person in the world I've ever hated.
But time goes on, and it all gets easier. You'll find out in time that moving on with your life is best.
I'm only a PM away if you want to yell at someone about it, I do know how it feels
You have to understand that if you post a topic then people are going to reply to it with what they feel and know about the subject and advice on what to do. What they say may not be what you want to hear, but in the long run, people don't reply to a thread to tell you exactally what you want to hear.
Take advise from people who have already been it a similar situation, such as Brian Kitten.
The people who have given their opinion didn't mean to hurt or upset you but sometimes the truth can hurt. Try to understand others point of view and try and learn from other people's past experiances because in the long run it'll be more of a help than a hinderance.
Hope everything works out for you
Thanx for all your advice.....
I think i'm just gonna.... (I'll let ya know when i've thought of something) :rolleyes:
SweetLeaf X
It's up to him who he goes out with and he didn't choose you, get over it and stop being such an evil nasty person....Ever stop to think that may be why he left?
The only thing wrong is that I'm in work!!
The reason why i'm being such an "evil nasty person" is because, in walks this Bitch who thinks she's god's gift. and takes the guy that i could quite happily spend the rest of my life with. So excuse me for being a bit sour, but I LOVE him so much that i'd do ANYTHING to get him back.
Look, Just because poor little Byny has to work, doesn't mean poor little Byny should be so fucking mean and take it out on the nearest person.
I am in love with the one person that I can't have and it's ripping me to shreads, so i'm am sorry for being an EVIL NASTY PERSON, but I really do think that Byny should take a look in the mirror.
SweetLeaf X
To be honest, the blunt approach pissed me off too when I was going throught the same thing. Byny's right though, at the end of the day it's up to the other person who they want to be with, even though that's really not what we want to be hearing.
Good luck with it anyway
WOAH THERE!! OK...now...IF this person had walked in and taken your man then I would have more sympathy, IF you were curbing your bitterness and nastiness i'd be more wiling to offer sympathetic advice...HOWEVER...you said it yourself...HE IS YOUR EX...HE SPLIT UP WITH YOU..
My point is that he has made a decision and you are fitting that stereotype of 'other woman hating spurned lover' by posting vitriolic tirades against a person who is unable to defend herself when quite clearly the person who has made the big decision here is your EX.
I don't deny that it can be a tough time when someone dumps you but turning into some kind of evil person isn't going to do you any favours! You will only start the healing process when you start to let go of the bitterness and move on. On the other hand you could spend the next six months winding yourself up and plotting evil deeds against people you think have done wrong!!
In your first post you called this girl a slut and a whore...You asked for people to help. Would it be helpful for us to reply 'right on sister, you tell her' when all the other people involved are basically free agents with free will and who seem to be OK with the situation?..
In your next post you talked about getting revenge! thats dangerous talk and the only person it will damage is you.
Some people on here can't sit here and condone that kind of behaviour...sorry!!
NB: Ok so I'm in work but that part of my last post was a thowaway bit at the end...I think the point I made about giving advice to those who are really going to listen was the important bit.
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