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Foreplay rant
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ok, guys..
i would like to take heed from this, in case you do this..STOP..or..take more time with it..
cause all blokes tend to do is..
- snog with the tongue licking your pizza and chips for dinner, eurgh..and grab a boob..not very erotic. this is kiddies stuff, or err..pubescent stuff lol.
- fumble about your crotch and rub your pelvic bone rather than your actual fanny, this is painful. let US show you. and don't go in a huff when we show you, we're helping you learn!
- suck and lick a nipple til we have a HUUUUGE love bite. yeah, that's attractive when we wanna wear our corset.
- suck and lick other nipple til we have another HUUUUGE love bite. grr..
- and dive in to the muff..no..CLIT..not muff. constant sucking and flicking ya tongue is good but do more, kiss the lips! nibble on 'em, lick the thighs. our clit gets nippy after we cum.. ooh and ahh when we cum does not mean speed up..it means continue at the pace or slow it down to drive us over the edge..it's lovely.
hmm, the point of this post went out the window, yo.
but..summat should get across and birds should get better foreplay..hurrah! the day is saved to BEBEDAWL!!!
er, righto.
MWUAH! :flirt:
i would like to take heed from this, in case you do this..STOP..or..take more time with it..
cause all blokes tend to do is..
- snog with the tongue licking your pizza and chips for dinner, eurgh..and grab a boob..not very erotic. this is kiddies stuff, or err..pubescent stuff lol.
- fumble about your crotch and rub your pelvic bone rather than your actual fanny, this is painful. let US show you. and don't go in a huff when we show you, we're helping you learn!
- suck and lick a nipple til we have a HUUUUGE love bite. yeah, that's attractive when we wanna wear our corset.
- suck and lick other nipple til we have another HUUUUGE love bite. grr..
- and dive in to the muff..no..CLIT..not muff. constant sucking and flicking ya tongue is good but do more, kiss the lips! nibble on 'em, lick the thighs. our clit gets nippy after we cum.. ooh and ahh when we cum does not mean speed up..it means continue at the pace or slow it down to drive us over the edge..it's lovely.
hmm, the point of this post went out the window, yo.
but..summat should get across and birds should get better foreplay..hurrah! the day is saved to BEBEDAWL!!!
er, righto.
MWUAH! :flirt:
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WAHHHHH!!
:yes:
So true!
I'm kinda new 2 the whole sex thing so this kinda helps cos I'd want 2 know that a girl is gettin the same pleaseure i am!!!!
any other tips 2 drive her wild????
whisper and trace your finger or tongue over them gently..VERY gently, and just blow softly..or nuzzle, which is just sort of brushing your nose and lips over them lovingly yanno..just be nice.
This is doubly true if its concerning something that is not clear cut, and that people tend to be embarrassed about anyway
not advice..it was mainly aimed at girls who can relate to these bad experiences, if i offended you, well too bad, not my fault if you can't take things light heartedly?
nothing deadly serious.
so..hush.
When boys talk sex in school, they don't tend to go on about licking her for three hours, they scrabble through the story to the final point of action as fast as possible. Unfortunately, this leads some of them to follow the same attitude to sex itself. But if a girl lets them, then frankly she has only herself to blame.
If you think crap foreplay is limited to boys then you are waaaaaaaay mistaken. I've known women who touched me like they were trying to strangle a python then yanked on it like a tug of war and got annoyed that I wasn't impressed.
Good foreplay (and good sex in general) can take years to learn, or can take about 2 hours when the right partner comes along. It takes two people to either make sex great or crap.
So this is how you improve his foreplay technique. As soon as he does something you LIKE, let him know, make noises, say yes, tell him to not stop. He will be pleased to have hit your hot spots! Repeat, repeat, repeat again.
Or you can play this game which is GREAT. What you have to do is take turns. So say itÕs my turn. I lie on the bed, have to be motionless and can not respond to anything, canÕt kiss partner back or touch them. YouÕre basically at their mercy and they can tease you till you canÕt take it any more. Once you give in, swap over. ItÕs a really good way to find what a person likes, and vice versa.
Girls please remember if you are playing with your blokes tool. A penis is for life and not just for xmas!