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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
im 17 and sum of my friends of the same age are pregnant and loads of my friends have bin a few times i havent eva been pregnant but am curious as to how many of u have either bin pregnant or bin told u were gonna be a dad just in case its just my mates!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    altho i hav neva bin pregnant a fair few girls in my year at scool (yr 11) hav been pregnant and had abortions - about 6 and one girl had her baby! but it sounds like ur talkin a bit more than 6 mates???
    if yes then i think its just ur mates!!! y wud they want 2b pregnant that early in life???
    hippy chick xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    id neva wanna get pregnant as earlier as my mates they r really stupid ive only eva had unprotected sex a few times and always gone to the drs for the morning after pill!!!! im tooo young for a kid!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a 16 year old virgin who's had one pregnancy scare, which has put me off having sex for a long time. One of my friends has been pregnant through rape, but then again most of them are virgins so that doesn't say a lot.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    I'm a 16 year old virgin who's had one pregnancy scare, which has put me off having sex for a long time.

    that's mindblowing. care to explain wild?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is yor real name Mary?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ROFLOLMAO!

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a Dad twice over. But then I am 30.

    Wait until you are mature enough to deal with it because kids take a lot of time and effort. In the end they are worth it.

    The moment you hear "I love you Daddy" for the first time is remembered forever...

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Man Of Kent:

    The moment you hear "I love you Daddy" for the first time is remembered forever...

    awwwww. taken in that context, that's a beautiful sentiment, m.o.k.

    taken in the wrong context, and that could land you in jail. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    sorry, that was pretty gross. means i probably shouldn't be having children yet. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    that's mindblowing. care to explain wild?


    she posted about it not long back!

    and fairy_pie... of course, if you've only had unprotected sex a FEW times, then thats okay, right?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    ive had no pregnancy scares, am not a virgin, am on the pill. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    my friend has had repeated unprotected sex with her wanker of a bf however, and has sometimes taken the morning after pill, and has other times not told me and other friends so we havent dragged her there.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've never had a pregnancy scare, my best friend has tho i think about 4 (i get more worried then she does about them lol) but i could totally understand how a pregenancy scare turn u off sex

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Before i left school, we were told our year were the worst for attendance, lateness and pregnancies. There was asudden run of babies at one point last year. A friend of mine took time off college because she was worried about rumours, but she ended up doing all her GCSEs at the hospital in case she droped the baby!!!!
    But since then i knew 7 ppl who had babies,but i recently heard loads of ppl in year 7 were pregs......thats discusting!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    been pregnant twice, one miscarriage, one abortion.

    don't want to say any more really.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    that's mindblowing. care to explain wild?
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    she posted about it not long back!

    Tis true <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; You don't have to have had sex to get pregnant, I did a big post about it like GFM said. If sperm gets anywhere near the vagina there's a risk, so if the bloke fingers you with cum on his hands it's unlikely but possible that you'll get pregnant.

    And that's what happened to me. If I was I'd be very nearly full term now, so unless another fluke has happened like when you don't show and only find out you're pregnant when you go into labour, I've been lucky.

    I've never done a test because I've always felt stupid saying "I'm a virgin but I think I might be pregnant", it's only now that I've started being able to say it at all because people here have supported me about it. So thank you guys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah this site is the bomb!!!!u can say nething and theres no need to feel embarassed r stupid r nething like that!u gotta luv it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    glad we could be of some help wildchild <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've been pregant once and I had an abortion. Its one of the most scariest and meaningful things that could ever ahppen to someone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    right is anyone getting my posts.......coz they don't seem to be coming up!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Man Of Kent:
    I'm a Dad twice over. But then I am 30.

    Wait until you are mature enough to deal with it because kids take a lot of time and effort. In the end they are worth it.

    The moment you hear "I love you Daddy" for the first time is remembered forever...



    Dood ure a king, I agree totally with u, even tho im only 15 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; u shouldnt start a family until you are totally ready and can cope and care for the child properly


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never known a single person of my age (18), either to have a baby on the way or even have a scare...
    Most of us are having regular sex (well I certainly am <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; ) maybe its just a different attitude to protection (or a duff supply of condon in your area).

    I love babies myself, but I prefer other peoples. When they cry/soil themselves/grow up and require expensive trainers you can hand them back...

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