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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
im head ova heels for my g/f( c head ova heels in the relationship board!!)and we've been cin each otha for nearly 3months now..and although we have never taked about sex, im sort of wondering if we would actually want to do it, im no a virgin,but she is, so how would i know what the signals were..without looking forceful???help!!sofie!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ive got the McVitiy busicuit blues

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How did you approach the subject with your last partner?
    As you know, then best way is just to talk to her. Ask if she wants to or if she feels ready, if not, then respect that and DO NOT try to push her into anything - I'm sure you wouldn't. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The best approach is definatly to speak to her about it - you have to learn to walk before you can run! Once you are both open and comfortable about talking about it, it definatly seems to get easier <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    definately definately definately talk to her about it! just ask her how she feels about the subject and if shes ready for it but let her know there is absolutely no pressure, oh yeah... and tell her you love her!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I whole heartedly agree with all of the above, but am genuinely concerned about the relevance of biscuits in this topic <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah well the same as everyone else really, ask her how she feels about it, if ur in a relationship and you feel ready it must mean your close and u can talk about things with each other, just ask her what she wants. I hope you get what you want

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If youve been going out for 3mnths u shuld be able to talk to her openly. If you feel you cant do this perhaps ure relationship isnt ready as you need trust. If she doesnt feel confident dont push her, she'll respect you for it and make it special when the time comes
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im sorry but if you are not comfortable enough to ask her how she feels about sex then you cant expect to have sex with her until you feel comfortable.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't think you should do what sunny said at the end by saying you love her as this may make her feel pressured into saying it back and she may also think your only saying it so you can get some.
    when i first met my boyfriend i was a virgin and he wasn't and the best thing we ever did was talk about it, were so open with everything now.
    the only thing you need to do now is think of a way to bring up the subject.if i was you i'd do it when your getting close. e.g. when your kissing. explain to her that your not wanting to rush into anything. you want to know how she feels about it and will wait for her to make a decision. also talk about contrception as this shows your thinknig about her and not just about sex
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with 'sexy little thing'.dont ever tell a girl u love them unless u totally mean it because u know how emotional us girls get!lol.let her know that u care about her and just talk about things.its the best and easiest way to go about things in a relationship!
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