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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My boyfriend comes within like 30 seconds wen i toss him off... is there ne way i cna delay the coming?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i did actually read something on this, but i'm afraid i can't remember where. sorry, i know thats no help but it's starting to annoy me now that i can't remember.
    i thought i'd do a search for it a while ago because my boyfriend always thought he came quick but i didn't think he did.
    i'll post another reply if i remember
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well one technic that many therapists ive read suggest (and which I use) is to bring him right to the brink of orgasm and instruct him to tell you when he feels it ready to explode (just before ejac).

    When he tells you to, have your thumb and first two fingers placed at the base of his dick with thumb on the underside just where the shaft meets the sac and the two fingers on the topside (like you are ready to clamp it).

    On his announcement clamp top and bottom together being sure to apply a bit more pressure on your thumb, pressing into the underside of the shaft. This will seal off the vas deferens which the semen travels up.

    Just squeeze it like this till his orgasm fades and then quickly release and apply more stimulation and he should not only stay up for more but also by denying his first ejaculation, the prostate dumps more fluid into the mix so when he finally shoots it can also be alot more and alot more intense.

    Enjoy!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get him to go to the doctors and "Blag" depression and get put on a course of Prozac. Once those babies start to get into your system,you can last all night! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ilson, Im sorry but you are misinformed on all counts here.

    The "pinch" method is not dangerous, nor is it painful. The amount of pressure applied to the "squeeze" should not be so great that there is any discomfort and given the relative shortness of the male orgasm it doesnt last that long.

    The prostate does not provide pressure to maintain erection. Erection is achieved and maintain by blood filling in the Corpus Cavernosum (or chambers running along the topside and underside of the penis.

    I have used this technic (as have countless numbers of males) over the years without a single problem.

    At the same time I admit that its not the only method out there but its a darn site more effective than "stop and go" at preventing premature ejac as well as maintaining the erection for continued love play.

    Given that this method is also widely recommended by professional sex therapists and sex ed workers, I would say you should avoid making such derogatory remarks about advice that freely offered in response to the original poster's question.

    If you dont like or agree with what is said do you own thing, but dont go slamming other people (especially when your critique is factually incorrect).

    Take or leave it, just have fun.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't toss him off?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont get why you need him to last a long time when youre tossing him off. surely it would only matter if he came that quickly during sex, but with tosssing off youd want it to happen quicker to save yourself a sore arm
    maybe im missing something here
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with Rainbow Brite, I mean wanking a bloke for any longer than that just kills your wrist so who cares if he comes quickly?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have invincible wrists! I wouldn't worry about him cumming quickly, maybe take it as a compliment? He must be excited and enjoy what you're doing yeh?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this mite be coz i'm new on this site..and missin the point here...but ya can always do it agen...he'l last longer the next time...
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