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I am NOT frigid!!!!!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I recently asked a boy out who i really like but he told my m8 that he wont go out with me coz im frigid!! In fact i actually think im far from it. I am not a virgin and have giving head 2 boyz b4 and have also been fingered. How do i show him i am not frigid??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ohh please leave this guy alone, he seem like silly little boy

    Why should you have to prove anything for him, and err maybe telling him you sleep with boys and given head before may not win him around?

    but then again it might work but he will be using you for sex, he wont care about you!!

    its your life, if you must have him tell him your easy and will do anything!, that will work, but ask your self why you really want him? is he worth it and how will he treat you in the long run.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok now nothin against essex ppl but usualy if u say 2 a lad your from essex it gets him interested straight away! (some times)
    and even tho that got nothin 2 do with it if he dont wana be with u cos he think your 'frigid' then it a bit obvious he would only be wantin ya for sex! the only way u can prove somet 2 him is leave him, go with another lad and show him wat good relationship and etc etc!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You asked him out? but he told a mate he didnt want to go out with you <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    Hmmm he has no balls anyway hun, you can do better, as for being easy, dont ever be easy for anyone else, do whats good for you - do things because you want to do them, not to win someone over, like said b4, silly little boy <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and silly little girl, if your going to tell him you do these things to get him to go out with you <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> sorry my opinion
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you sure this guy isn't using reverse psychology with you? *a lot of dickheads do*

    Guy: She wont sleep with me, shes too frigid!!
    you: Alright then! I will! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> just a thought.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yer, and if not that, maybe he just doesn't want to go out with you and randomly came up with the fridged thing as an excuse?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What was that about silly little boys?

    Dammit Kirk, you're supposed to be grown up; but all your stories and anecdotes prove otherwise.

    I accept that it's your choice, and that you are free and indeed welcome to do as you wish. In fact, I wish you well; it removes one "lad" from the pool of people who can have serious relationships.

    In terms of this perception, answering the original post, frigid is a term often used when people don't know what else to say. Don't rush in to anything, try asking him again, and not with friends. You're only 15. Lots of time for fun yet. Just ask Kirk.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya, Out of all u ppl who replied 2 me, 3 of u were implying that i am easy! I am from essex but that dont make me a slag. As for losing my virginity at 15, i am sure there are ppl who lost it younger and not 2 sum1 they were in a stable relationship with-like me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kathryn:
    <STRONG>but that dont make me a slag.

    Can smell a newbie a mile off! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    You have an ultra sensitive nose! Aaaah! Eau De Newbie <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> *Wonders what the regs smell like* <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aND WOT IZ DAT SUPPOSED 2 MEAN?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sexy Essex Bird:
    <STRONG>aND WOT IZ DAT SUPPOSED 2 MEAN?</STRONG>

    That you can't even construct a proper english sentance.

    People like you give newbies a bad name. There are some people that come here, realise that this isn't a text message, and write proper sentances. If you can't be bothered to write a proper message, why should we bother to give a serious reply?
    In fact i actually think im far from it. I am not a virgin and have giving head 2 boyz b4 and have also been fingered. How do i show him i am not frigid??

    Wow let's boast about how many boyz I av fingrd - no if that doesn't say *cough* loose *cough* I don't know what does.

    I take pity on the normal girls that come from essex with people like you giving them a reputation.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It means that, among other things;

    1. You write in text talk, and cannot understand that it's difficult and irritating to read.

    2. You also write in caps. Often. And unnecessarily.

    3. You take offense when people describe you as a "newbie"

    4. You are attempting to make a guy think that you are not frigid, at the age of 15, I might add, and then curious to know why people think that your morals are loose.

    5. You are asking questions that only newbies tend to ask.

    6. You are focused purely on the sexual and not emotional or connection side of this relationship.

    Will that do?

    What Kathryn, I think, intended was that your mode of writing leaves a lot to be desired. The rest is all my perception. Don't blame her for it. You want to be mad, get mad at me. In fact, I might enjoy it.

    Edited to add;
    REMEMBER talking is gr8 4 solving unsolved issues!

    Your words.

    Physician, heal thyself.

    [ 04-05-2002: Message edited by: DJP ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're not only a slapper, you're fucking boring as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not taking sides or anything but wasn't everybody a newbie at one point?!?!
    if your loads higher than a newbie then doesn't that show that you have just a LITTLE bit too much spare time on your hands.get a fucking hobby!!!
    ok,maybe i am taking sides but might aswell put my point across whilst everybody is having a go at each other.
    all she did was post a question to get answered. thats the whole point of these boards. so quit being so childish, it doesn't matter where you come from, everbody is an individual which means that not everybody follows the stupid rumours.
    and my last thing is that if she is a newbie then shouldn't you be explaining that you don't use text talk on here instead of having a go.


    sorry if your a lad, can't remember your name
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My first post did explain that, and most posts in the boards explain the fact that text talk is not good.

    And help was offered.

    But, this is the kind of post that people often come across. The eagerness to prove that she is not frigid is something regrettable, certainly in later life, and lamentable about her state of affairs. As older people who come across this, quite often, we try and dissuade from this course of action.

    And that trying to project a sexually confident image at 15 is not a good thing.
    Originally posted by sexy little thing:
    <STRONG>if your loads higher than a newbie then doesn't that show that you have just a LITTLE bit too much spare time on your hands.get a fucking hobby!!! </STRONG>

    And you accuse us of not being helpful, and of not being informative? There are lots of people who spend time on this site in a worthwhile way of providing advice, support and friendship. It is something you will not, and obviously do not appreciate. It is a community, of which we are proud and happy to be in.

    If you want to be insulting, then leave. Now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Boys who call girls frigid are the same boys that call girls who sleep with them "slags". Best avoided.
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