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Turn-offs/Turn-ons...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
What is a turn-off for you people? I find girls who smoke, and girls who have a flabby belly a turn-off (I love a flat stomach), and I find a smiling, bubbly personality a great turn-on.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On's BIG muscles(no crescendo not just coz you work out:)) Tallness, big dick (had to be said:D)

    Off's Peeps who aren't acquainted with soap and/or toothpaste and/or razors. Peeps who abuse aclcohol/drugs, as opposed to those who use them. Queens.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Turn-offs/Turn-ons...
    Originally posted by crescendo
    What is a turn-off for you people? I find girls who smoke, and girls who have a flabby belly a turn-off

    Well, I'm out on both counts then!:D

    Hmm. honestly, there ain't much that turns me off.
    toothlessness, i guess, would be nasty, although... *naughty bits of my imagination taking over*
    obnoxious ignorance.
    exteme weight problem one way or the other, but i mean like exteme.
    moochers.
    arrogance, unless it's pulled off with a cock-sure boyish charm:p
    SPORTS FREAKS. definitely sports freaks.

    Now the fun bit. Turn-ons, eh?
    artists (I know, it'll be the death of me)
    a man with an instrument in his hands (I meant the musical kind, you dirty pervs)
    tatoos
    a man with a board under his arm (SKATEBOARD. jesus, you people)
    a man with a bone between his lips (um, the smokable kind)
    goatees (never knew how to spell that)
    all things rockabilly
    thick calves
    thick pipes
    chicks (oops!)
    a big, fat crazy brain
    rhythm (as in, they can dance like a possessed beast)
    when he calls me baby
    when he can lift me up with one arm
    armpits and man-sweat. HWWWAA.
    those tighty-whity T-shirts.
    minor injuries
    the hood (bonet?) of a car (don't ask)
    certain songs ( and *yes*, that can be enough!!)

    Well, you asked.:cool: ;):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turn off's:

    - Guys that leave their socks on....:eek: No why is it that socks are always a guys first thing to put on and last thing to take off????
    - arrogance, big headedness
    - big muscles....not for me thanx

    Turn on's

    - great personality
    - well toned thighs
    - average muscles
    - mmm....Irish accent..oh yeah...*drools...damn I should live in Ireland*

    Hmm...there's too many...if i keep going I'll never get any work done. :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Off's: Grubby teeth..(my friends sister has food on them...still)
    To be honest I can't really think of any just now.

    On's: Sparkly eye's
    Nice smile
    Nice teeth
    Nice backside

    er...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On's:
    * Scottish accent
    * Long hair
    * Great conversation maker
    * Share similar interests
    * Tidy
    * Below knee-length skirt
    * Has own hobby/do original things/creative

    Off's:
    * Swearing (the occasional bugger is alright)
    * Leather, PVC, high boots or similar fetish
    * Untidy
    * Sex on the first night/week
    * Extensive computer/TV usage

    Irrelevant's:
    * Size
    * Musical/TV tastes
    * Blondes/brunettes/black hair
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On:

    Accents
    Dark skin
    Offers to pay
    Deep voice
    Turns up on time
    Clean shaven

    Off:

    Burberry
    Rockports
    White Socks
    High pitched voice
    Lives with Mummy
    Brags about sexual partners
    No bum
    Drinks a pint while tipping head back so you can see all his teeth
    Burps and farts repeatedly
    White hairs
    Long hair
    Facial hair
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ons...
    * Big shoulders
    * Nice smile (full set of teeth and no green bits!)
    * I agree with Kazbo on the Irish accent bit!

    Offs...
    * Shyness!
    * Skinnyness!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On:

    Nice tits
    Nice ass
    Nice smile
    Meaty girls

    Off:

    Girls that nag.
    Gills that talk.
    Girl that think.
    Girls that go on about Ex’s all the time.

    Girls that show off to much of their body at once (No need for it!)

    Birds that don’t like being refereed to as birds (I don’t mind being called an asshole) So what’s the big deal!
    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turn ons:

    Nice arse
    Blonde hair
    Sense of humour
    Good Kisser
    Nice eyes


    Turn Offs:

    Opposite of all above plus,
    Ginger Hair(im really sorry)
    Girls who try and make you jealous
    Shyness
    Huge Breasts(yes i did mean that)
    Bushy Minge:eek:
    Bad kissers

    My biggest turn on is my Girlfriend, she's got everything i want.
    (Apart from her own car!) :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turn on's:

    Nice eyes
    Nice smile
    Dark hair
    Nice voice/accent
    Romantic
    Not too tall or too short
    Got to be older than me

    Turn off's:

    Really short or really tall
    Blonde hair
    Vain people
    People who smoke
    Facial hair
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On's: Gothicness, long hair, cheeky grin/laugh, piercings, goatee's, speech impediments (Don't ask!) nice hands, gentle kisser, spikey hair, Bryll Cream :D

    Off's: Trendy guys, hairy chests, overweightness, overly bitten finger nails, stubble!, sloppy kissers, short men (no offence!)

    SweetLeaf X
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turn-ons:
    -broad shoulders
    -messed up hair
    -tattoos/piercings (but only some..)
    -nice eyes
    -nice arm muscles
    -sense of humour
    -a little arrogance

    Turn-offs:
    -really light blonde/ginger hair
    -skinny blokes
    -tight trousers
    -burberry stuff/tracksuit bottoms with socks over the top/caps worn East17 style..you get the picture
    -clean shavenness
    -too much maturity
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Gills that talk.
    Girl that think.

    Dude, you are SO just trying to ruffle our feathers, right?

    Geez, you're not harmless at all!!!:D :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On's: good smile, sparkling intelligence and personality and tallness

    Off's: smokers, bad teeth and hairy backs
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PussyKatty
    Off:
    Lives with Mummy

    To be fair, this one can't really be helped - my bf's studying for his LPC in London and there's NO WAY he can afford to rent anywhere there at the moment. Having said that, the sneaking around we have to do when I visit is annoying (I get banished to the spareroom. I'm 20 and he's 23 for God's sake...)

    Hmmm

    Turn ons:

    Dark (brown/black) hair and eyes
    Nice smile
    Intelligence
    caringness/Generousity (not necessarily/only where money's concerned)
    Similar musical tastes to me
    Abilty to make me laugh
    Casual/slightly grungy style
    A slight bit of stubble is very sexy
    And....ability to tap in to my bizarre wavelength!

    Turn offs:
    bad boyz ("like, wearing a cap backwards is, like, sooo cool")
    drunk pricks in clubs who try to grab everyone in a skirt - ok, blokes have to maybe be a bit obvious before I realise they like me, but not that obvious. Please.
    boringness
    Tory boys (especially if they try to convert me to the 'cause' - no I won't fucking vote Conservative at the next election!)
    arrogance
    deceit
    I don't really go for blonde blokes....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PositivePain


    Dude, you are SO just trying to ruffle our feathers, right?

    Geez, you're not harmless at all!!!:D :p
    Lol er yeaaah, Did it work?:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turn on's

    Irish accents (agree with Kazbo here)
    Sporty men
    Toned/muscley bods
    Cheeky grins
    sense of humour
    intelligence
    confidence (but not cocky)
    people who say it like it is

    Turn off's

    Bad teeth
    Dimwit rudeboys
    Mummy's boys
    gobshites that think they're god
    liars/bullshit artists
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ON'S,
    Honest, genuine people.

    OFF'S,
    Dishonest, fakes. People who play mind games to test your reactions.

    The physical thing is all relative & subjective.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    turn ons
    nice smile
    good sense of humour
    nice laugh
    needs to be talkative
    and want to share her ice cream
    tight skin all over
    soft hair
    pale ish skin (not a racist remark i just prefer really white girls)
    hand full of breasts u know the type that just fill ur hand hmmm
    nice asss u know the type that just fits into ur hands when u hold her
    got to have some sort of creative out put art writing ect.
    good music taste nothing worse than a pop fan
    kind voice and fair words
    the type that wants to experiment with sex and food
    seperatly at first but then all together.
    hmm food and sex
    hmmm fooood
    cooking together
    spooon all hail to the spoon
    beign lazy on a cold sunday moring and just staying in bed
    understnding and care for feelings.
    pretty eyes
    and smaller hands so its easy to hold them in ur own.


    turn offs
    penises oddly in my women thou it can be aturn on in my men.
    breast are good with both women and men.
    bitchy types but rp can be fun
    nagging types like yo momma
    not drinking or doing any kind of drug or risky life style
    i mena come on weres the excitment and living life on the edge.
    women that say i love just so u say it back.
    or make u feel bad about forgeting things. its not like u did it on purpose.
    closed mind and ignorance to differnent life styles.
    catholics
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by le-dean
    turn ons
    nice smile
    good sense of humour
    nice laugh
    needs to be talkative
    and want to share her ice cream
    tight skin all over
    soft hair
    pale ish skin (not a racist remark i just prefer really white girls)
    hand full of breasts u know the type that just fill ur hand hmmm
    nice asss u know the type that just fits into ur hands when u hold her
    got to have some sort of creative out put art writing ect.
    good music taste nothing worse than a pop fan
    kind voice and fair words
    the type that wants to experiment with sex and food
    seperatly at first but then all together.
    hmm food and sex
    hmmm fooood
    cooking together
    spooon all hail to the spoon
    beign lazy on a cold sunday moring and just staying in bed
    understnding and care for feelings.
    pretty eyes
    and smaller hands so its easy to hold them in ur own.


    turn offs
    penises oddly in my women thou it can be aturn on in my men.
    breast are good with both women and men.
    bitchy types but rp can be fun
    nagging types like yo momma
    not drinking or doing any kind of drug or risky life style
    i mena come on weres the excitment and living life on the edge.
    women that say i love just so u say it back.
    or make u feel bad about forgeting things. its not like u did it on purpose.
    closed mind and ignorance to differnent life styles.
    catholics


    so not much then.:)

    keep looking mate.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Monserrat
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    Off's:
    * Swearing (the occasional bugger is alright)
    * Leather, PVC, high boots or similar fetish
    * Untidy
    * Sex on the first night/week
    * Extensive computer/TV usage


    That's OK, the girlies at TheSite don't fancy you either.

    :p
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