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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
do you know what, if any, infections or whatever u can get by giving a blowjob and swallowing?

the reason that i'm asking this is that i've given my boyfriend 4 blow jobs in the past week and as far as i know hes pretty clean. hes only been with one other girl and that was about 8 months ago and she was a serious gf. but ive just spoken to my best friend, whos not that really clued up on sex and what goes with it, but she really scared me by saying that i could have something. i mean shes meant 2 b my best friend, yet shes really freakin me out now!
hes the only person ive given a blow job 2 btw and as far as i know i'm in good health.

pls help me to stop being freaked out!!!
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[ 26-03-2002: Message edited by: ickle_muppet ]

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your friend is probably talking about and STD which ya cna get from oral sex to prevent this you could use a condom and now days they come in all shapes sizes colours and flavours to make it all teh more enjoyable <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    while you are there you could try looking at these links http://www.thesite.org//magazine/sex_and_relationships/giving_him_good_head.html
    there is also lots of stuf fon STI/STD's etc if you look around <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    but you are probably fine as long as your boyfriend is not playing around and ahsnt picked up anything then teher is no reason why you have anything <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    xx deeby doo xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    While it is generally less common to catch sti's through oral sex, it is possible to catchgonorrhoea, Hep B, and
    syphilis through oral sex.

    There is also a slight risk of contracting HIV through unprotected oral sex - transmission is possible if semen, vaginal fluid or menstrual blood comes in contact with bleeding gums or mouth infections. You can protect yourself from HIV infection by using condoms.

    If you think you might have a sexually transmitted infection, sort it out straight away. Don't continue having sex with your partner. Go to a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic, available at most large hospitals. GUM clinics give free and confidential advice and treatment. Or you can make an appointment to see your GP.

    You reduce your risk of infection by avoiding unsafe sex and using condoms.

    Brook Advisory Centres
    Advice, counselling and medical help around contraception, pregnancy, abortion and sexual health.
    Telephone: 0800 0185023

    Family Planning Association
    Information service on family planning and all aspects of sexual health.
    Helpline: 0845 3101334
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    [Sorry if this turns up twice - I wrote the post once and it seemed to disappear into the wilderness!]

    Sorry to steal the thread here, but does anyone here actually use condoms for oral sex??

    I know there is the slight risk of HIV and other STIs, but I'd always thought it was minute compared to 'proper' sex. And judging by the number of 'spit or swallow' threads, that appears to be most other people's view as well.

    Are we all just being stupidly irresponsible <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know i totally agree,
    i far as i know my friends dont use protection when giving head.
    but is there anyone on here that has caught something, or knows someone who has caught stds etc by giving head without a condom?

    oh, and thanx for the advice and the helpful links/numbers Susie & xxdeeby dooxx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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