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I want a vibrator-how do I tell him?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I really fancy trying a vibrator-but boyf is a shy geezer who would probably think that I needed one because he isn't adequate. HE IS!! I just wanna experiment a little!! Any tips, please? Also, do you not feel a bit daft at first? Any recommendations for the best ones?

Little Angelxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Why don't you just get one (Anne Summers etc..) and whip it out when you're "getting jiggy wit' it" then ask him for a *ahem* helping hand. Shock value, works a treat.

    My Lady has two (greedy!!) and though they're quite amusing it ain't all that really, I'd usually prefer a bit of tongue action........
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well ive just ordered one as i am curious, i just told my boyfreind that i had ordered one & asked him if he will use it on me.
    i think they do have some kind of "am i not good enough" but hey might add a bit of spice to the relationship!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Will try that, cheers. We might die laughing at first though! I can just picture the look of horror on his face!! I have been curious about them for years. Now feels like the time to bring the subject up! My gran once asked me which were the best type of vibrator to use and where to get them from. She obviously thought I had tried everything (I was only 19!) but the thought turned me sick. Still recovering from the embarassment! Told her check out Ann Summers, perhaps I should now. Ta!

    Little Angelxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I bought my gf a virbrator, we had both talked about it and decided to try it out.
    It wasn't the most amazing exprience, as we didn't know how to use it properly and I hurt her a bit.
    But she said when it works properley it was amazing,
    but she prefers when i use my own body parts. If you tell your bf you will always want him to lick/finger e.t.c then he shud be ok with it.

    RULE BRITTANIA
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I felt a bit let down when my G/F got one.
    but it was just a passing fad. its been in the bottom of her drawer 4 over a year now, Do u want it? (can post in a plain brown envolope, save u going red at the counter in a shop!)LoL
    seriously thou he shoulkd be ok just dont go for ne thing over 1" longer or 1/2" wider than his (This would make him feel inadequate) I.E. no king ding dongers!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Given my newfound single status, the thought of a period of chastity fills me with dread

    *withdrawal symptoms setting in already*

    A little bit too old and wise for the slapper approach to sexual gratification, I am considering trying a vibrator to fill those long lonely nights. Where's the place place to order one (discreatly!)? Ann Summers always appeared terribly tacky to me, I imagine there's better places to get one. I'm not talking about a 13-inch black rubber knobbler or anything, nor does glow-in-the-dark pink do anything for me. Quiet would also be good, lest my housemate thinks I've knicked his vibrating mobile!

    All suggestions gratefully received. Ta.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Kaz-Ann Summers is the only place I can think of really. There are probably loads of sites on the net but I would have to use my parners credit card for that! Like you, I dont want "The Rabbit" (Sex in the City) or anything that sounds like an engine getting revved up. Boyf sleeps pretty heavily but t hat might wake him! Glow in the dark would freek me out. Will let you know if I find anything half decent. I don't know what types the blokes above have been using but they don't sound spectacular. Let me know how you get on!

    Little Angelxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i borrowed my b/fs credit card to get mine - he was quite happy about it as it was his suggestion. Ann Summers may appear a bit tacky, but it's quite reasonable, the website's not bad, and it comes in very discreet packaging.

    due to insufficient funding, the light at the end of the tunnel has been switched off.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ann Summers aint that tacky, Ive been in there before and didnt feel self-conscious.

    And vibes are cool, but only as an aid not a replacement <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kaz:
    Given my newfound single status, the thought of a period of chastity fills me with dread

    *withdrawal symptoms setting in already*

    A little bit too old and wise for the slapper approach to sexual gratification, I am considering trying a vibrator to fill those long lonely nights. Where's the place place to order one (discreatly!)? Ann Summers always appeared terribly tacky to me, I imagine there's better places to get one. I'm not talking about a 13-inch black rubber knobbler or anything, nor does glow-in-the-dark pink do anything for me. Quiet would also be good, lest my housemate thinks I've knicked his vibrating mobile!

    All suggestions gratefully received. Ta.

    Ann summers is suprisingly untacky, the shops are well lit, and u can order from their website if ure embarrased. I'd suggest against ordering from anywhere else unless u're sure they're reputable, complaining to the police that they tricked u into sending ure money and didn't send ure vibrator could be a little weird.

    Devon
    The earth is made of dirt and wood, and I'd be water if I could
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