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Relationship Breakers

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok heres my predicament, a few ppl have told my g.f that i was supposed to have had a 3sum with sum girls who i dunt even no and its all crap and i hate it wen ppl interefere.i suffer from alot of paranoia even more so with this girl as i no she is the one for me! now i feel that im gunna lose her.she tells me she loves me and still wants me but she sed she cant get the thought out of her head. it is really scaring me cus she is the best thing to ever happen to me she is my soul mate and i am petrified she'll believe them over me.she ses she believes me but im not to sure. i love her to bits and i wanna get past this. i just feel that it will b on her mind and my mind for a long time and that we mite not get past it. i dunt wanna lose her over a lie that cvould break us up just cus sum ppl find it amusing to screw with ppls love lifes. y r ppl like this? they have sed its a windup, i mean how childish can ppl b? dunt they have there own lifes?. i really dunno wot to do, plz can sum of u help me? how do me and my g.f get over this boldface lie? how do we get back to normal?

[This message has been edited by Renegade (edited 06-11-2001).]

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does she think you had the 3some while you were seeing her? If so, it depends how much she trusts you. If not, you have nothing to worry about. Stop being so paranoid (easier said than done I know) and just enjoy her. Otherwise you will become boring and will drive her away. Relax and have fun. If she is the one, you will get past this. If not ,you will get over it. Smile!

    Little Angelxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You can't hear me, but I'm singing; "Relationship Breakers, punctuations what you need". (It fits with the "Record Breakers, dedications what you need" theme). Posts like your's are difficult to read, so give us a hand eh? Write properly, including punctuation.

    Basically, if your g/f trusts you and you explain that this is a lie, she should believe you. If it's your mates that have started this lie, tell them to straighten it out because its important to you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sit down 4 a while and tell her how u feel and that the rumours are false goodluck
    angel xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm the g/f.

    ~*cHoOsEy LoVeR~*

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/hamsterears.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey
    ok first of all i know how pissed off u r at the stupid fucks who find it amazing to destroy ur relation ship .... ive been there.
    I have had so many rumours spread around about me it is untrue. it hyas taken me and my boyfriend 1/2 a year to get back to where we were but thats not only because of rumours other things too. Dont get too paranoid because my boyf is the same as u and it kinda makes me wonder sometimes if i wanna b in a relationship with sum 1 who cant just ignore the rumours n say ok theyre sayin that u have done this but u say u havent i believe u n i trust that ur gunna b woith me. You need to remember that shes with you and if she does leave u she was obviously not the person you were meant to be with.
    i hope this kinda helps in its own twisted lil way lol

    luv
    Lauraxxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Just as a minor point, do you know how hard it is to get three willing people together for a threesome?? Pretty God-damn tricky, one of my mates has been trying it for years!! Maybe I'm sliding into the "old fart" generation fairly swiftly, but are you lot so promiscuous that threesomes are a believable, common-place occurance??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doesn't mean they don't happen <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    ~*cHoOsEy LoVeR~*

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/hamsterears.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~*cHoOsEy LoVeR~*:
    Doesn't mean they don't happen <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Doesnt mean that he did

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Dark Knight:
    Originally posted by ~*cHoOsEy LoVeR~*:
    Doesn't mean they don't happen <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Doesnt mean that he did

    Doesn't mean that he didn't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe the fact that u have ur doubts means that ur not completely happy/sure about the relationship? If he doesnt suit you, u might both be happy with other people.

    i hope it works out ok!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya!!
    well......i think u should get over it! cos maybe if it is true u shouldnt ave done it?!
    not sayin that u ave done it! just sayin if u did it wasnt the right thing to do!!
    Are u and g.f stil together? if not maybe that should give u a clue as to why not?!
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