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re: Help this VIRGIN!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right, everyone. I'm 15. and i was a virgin, until recently. What i wanna know is "how do i come on to my boyfriend?" I want to turn him on. Coz everytime we have sex i usually don't do anything. And i know he's gonna get bored soon. So everyone give me hints, tips and stuff.
(and oral sex is definetly a NO-NO)

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi

    Firstly, if your not too shy, why is oral a No-No, if your having full on sex you've kinda jumped onto the band wagon before you learned how to work the machine, if you get me, i would have suggested getting to know your bodies by using foreplay, which i think is a very important part of sexual intercourse. Try not to rush things carm it down and turning your boyfriend on will come naturally, read some of the stuff on this forum there are some great techniques and advise on different topics, and remember do just go for the kill or your boyfriend will get bored.

    Hope this helps and good luck

    Danny

    Be good and live hard!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    personally i think orals nasty. and my boyfriend said if i ever did it to him, he would neva kss me again.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and look at what advice. tell me where to look. i don't like searching
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi

    Well i hate searching to, try http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001452.html

    For a start and just go through the headings.

    Other Ideas to get your bloke going:

    1)Underwear
    2)Very short and tight fitting clothes
    3)Suggestion - no that you'll carry it out but just the talking about it gets some guys going

    It's hard to say you should really talk to your BF to really get the right ideas, the number one turn on for most blokes is oral sex, but obivously not in your case, i suppose giving him a hand job would be good, though you have to get it right or you will end up giving him more pain than pleasure.

    One other idea is before you make love, ask him what he would like you to do to him, that will give him more control and will probably make him more excited that you are asking for his permission so to speak.

    I hope this helps, sorry for the rambling but i'm trying

    Cheers

    Danny

    Be good and live hard!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    http://www.thesite.org/sex/general_sex/shake_up_your_sex_life.html


    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;

    [This message has been edited by Squinty (edited 06-11-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx a bunch
    ima try sum of dat stuff!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by YoungFreeLife:
    personally i think orals nasty. and my boyfriend said if i ever did it to him, he would neva kss me again.

    your bf is a kind of taliban of sex or what?



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by themax_1:
    your bf is a kind of taliban of sex or what?

    This is the funniest thing I have seen today, themax_1, I thank you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    This is the funniest thing I have seen today, themax_1, I thank you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    lmao, me 2!
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Nobody's perfect til u fall in love with them!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Incase you all didn't notice,
    what themax1 said is an insult 2 my boyf...
    And we just have different views on oral sex...IS DAT A CRIME?!?!?!?!??????
    I think all da girls that do it r nasty....but you don't see me insulting all of them!!
    So i would appreciate if you neva insulted my boyf..
    Thank you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you just have insulted them!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by YoungFreeLife:
    Incase you all didn't notice,
    what themax1 said is an insult 2 my boyf...
    And we just have different views on oral sex...IS DAT A CRIME?!?!?!?!??????
    I think all da girls that do it r nasty....but you don't see me insulting all of them!!
    So i would appreciate if you neva insulted my boyf..
    Thank you

    I used to think it was horrid and would only do it after much persuasion, then i met my current bf and i don't know why but i just can't get enough of it. I don't think he minds either <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hey YFL, I don't think it was intended as an insult as such, you gotta bear in mind that it requires an open mind to post here and you are asking for advice and opinions on your sex life, which is pretty much inviting comments really. Most people here wouldn't regard oral sex as dirty (some would positively love a bit) so you gotta expect people to question your attitude. Just take such suggestions with a pinch of salt.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you kidding Clawz???

    More is never enough!!!

    On a serious note though, it is about YOUR CHOICE. Nothing moreor less.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just noticed.. Your post title is help this VIRGIN!!! and yet the first thing you say on your post is that you're actually not one.

    I'm just oh so very bored and feeling niggly so its nothing personal.
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