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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
do u reckon it's possible to live in chastity? well it is possible, but it hardly ever happens.

im really bored i dunno why i'm writing this, just wonderin if any of u cud go wivout sex! lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

i reckon i cud, but thats coz im a virg

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    do u reckon it's possible to live in chastity? well it is possible, but it hardly ever happens.

    im really bored i dunno why i'm writing this, just wonderin if any of u cud go wivout sex! lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    i reckon i cud, but thats coz im a virg


    I guess it is possible, my friend is a christian and she's promised not to do it until she is married, I only hope she sticks to it!
    I dont know If I could manage, I'd probably have to because If I was single I seriously doubt that i'd have a choice in the matter. But yes, it is entirely possible.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    It might be possible but it ain't natural - for me anyway! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Chastity is very possible, and is something to be respected. I believed in chastity till I was truly felt ready to start sexual relations, and that wasn't till I was 20 even now I am not sure that I was truly emotionally ready for it, I think I wanted to experience the feeling of a sexual relationship before I died. And I feel bad for giving into temptation, but you can't turn back time. still it wasn't a decision I took lightly but I respect myself for having taken things slowly and got myself out of sexual situations with girlfriends as a teen. I do remember one time when I was 14 trying to explain to my then girlfriend Fiona (who was 13) that I didn't want to have sex, because I didn't feel ready to and wasn't sure she truly was even though she was giving the signs of gagging for it. I do not regret that one minute even if she got the hump and went round spreading a rumour which stuck my whole school life at the secondary school that I was gay <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;

    sorry for the incoherent ramblings
    LUK

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i guess its easier to abstain from sex if youve never had it before, coz you dont know what youre missing. but i remember at like 13, 15 kind of age i just really wanted to have sex, i wasnt in a relationship at the time but i guess its all the hormones flying about lol.. i dont know how id have felt if i WAS in a relationship at that age about having sex... but it wasnt until i was in a long term relationship and id been with the guy for about 4 or 5 months that i felt ready, and i was 17 then. didnt happen for 10 months for other reasons though, but i dont regret it. i dont like the guy anymore and i hope i never hear from him or see him ever again lol, but i loved him at the time.

    but now ive lost my virginity i find it hard if i dont have sex for a few weeks lol, its terrible. i dont recommend long distance relationships for precisely this reason!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    anyway im gonna shut up now.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree but i think some ppl can go without it,

    i mean ive not had sex with a man for months and yes it would be nice and yes id o miss it but i dont need it really if you get my drift,

    i mean im quite happy and im more desparate to have it with ppl i cant have than anyone at all,

    if i was gaggin for sex that badly i know a few lads who would come round and give it me gladly if they had the chance, but i dont want it that bad.

    So i think you can go without it, i mean i thought at one point if i didnt have it once a week for defintite i wouldnt be able to cope, but thats proved to be not true, i mean fuck even if u cant get sex u can use ur hands an object or buy a vibo so theres always a cure,

    and i think people who dont have sex must wank so in a way they are sort of getting some <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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