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blow jobs and hand jobs

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've been with my fella for a while now. I've given a blow and hand job once before and I'd like to do it to my current boyfriend but last time I did it the guy said I was crap basically. Have any fellas got any tips on how to do them good because I'd appreciate it. My boyfriend is kind and caring and I know he wouldn;t say anything like the previous lad but still it would be ncie to know. Thanks

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take it slowly, and try not to be too rough. If he complains of pain, then use some lubrication, spit will be ok.
    Gently play around his "area" and grip the shaft, move your hand up and down slowly to begin with. When it appears to get wetter because he is excited then start to move faster, but not too fast. Let him be your guide, ask him to tell you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No tips as such from me, but why don't you ask your boyf if there's any particular things he does/doesn't like or ways he does/doesn't like things done? He'll love you for it! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as i lad i think any effort is well and truly appricated <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> i think your fella would like it if you asked him for some pointers cuz at least then it shows you care and are intersted in pleasing him.

    xx deeby doo xx

    ps lubricant feels GOOOOOOD! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Deeby Doo is the greatest! Doing all that research and stuff, I mean technically she could have done it herself, but no, DD there to lend a hand.

    Cool!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Start reading cosmo!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> always like to help if i can <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I'm totaly with Nic. I'm very worried about doing it wrong. I have done it before but I was very young and crap. I'm 19 now and would really love to please my man. So any sugestions would be appreciated! <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Advice!
    Blow job - use your tongue, never use your teeth!!
    Hand job - hold it tight, but not too hard and move fast.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    also the orientation of your hand can make a difference, as my blokey likes it when his cock gets pressed hard on the underside near the base, where the urethra is- that one makes his eye roll up into his head and cum in about 10secs if im not careful!

    basically, take your cues from how he is reacting, and don't be afriad to try other grips/ways of doing it - how about being naked/nearly naked on top of him [astride his waist...] while doing it? than he could look a t you while you do it.....just a thought!

    and as for no teeth in blowjobs, well it depends on how much you 2 are into S&M - and a light attack with the teeth [very light!] can be good if you're moving slowly....don't want to snag going too quickly when you try that though!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teeth are good and feel great if done right, You might want to try light (really light mind!) biting.
    Just an idea, works for me anyway.
    <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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