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Help me make up my mind!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok HERES THE SITUATION!First of all im 18 and next weekend im goin to a party, theres a possibility i might lose my virginity. The thing is im not desperate to have sex but i think i am ready to do it, im a massive worrier tho! Im not fat but im just not happy bout my appearance body wise, face wise im cool wi it. Aftr reading previous posts its nice to see that there is some guys with respect for women and an understanding to sex but im afraid something will go wrong. my mate says he would treat a girl right, but im not sure if he's the type to go tell his mates all the gory details aftr sex. I guess i know the answer already, i should wait and be sure about him, i know that but i think i need someone to say it to me or anything other advice they have to offer so shoot. Im really sorry if this is "another one of those posts" but i need help and quick!

Cheers (",) x

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you know really that its best to wait until you find some body that you're sure off, and its always better to avoid it if its under the influnce of alchol beacuse then you will be able to rmeber <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">also you dont want to wake up and regrte it

    xx deeby doo xx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gettin Jiggy Wi It:
    <STRONG> I guess i know the answer already, i should wait and be sure about him, i know that but i think i need someone to say it to me
    </STRONG>

    WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE SURE ABOUT HIM.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't do it for the sake of it - it will end in you being hurt one way or another
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers guys. I'll just see what happens at the party. I never know it might be the start of a relationship!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so ? ...
    whats the end of the story ?

    I know that you dont have to answer if you dont want to, like if its just *too* personal, thats your perogitive.
    but of course, if you dont, we will know.

    so come on... do tell! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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