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Girls thoughts on anal

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My ex g'friend used to love recieving anal and would want it every 2 or 3 times that we slept together but It doesn't seem to have the same effect with my current g/f. She suggests it from time to time but it never seems to hit the spot in the same way.
I'd really like to know what girls like /dislike about anal?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry, cant help you there. And i've been told by most women that thay don't talk up the brown job so i don't know if anyone can help you. My theory is that its the next step in trust in a relationship. You already are close with the g/f coz you've had sex, if she lets you down the brown its probably coz she really likes you and trusts you in so many ways. Just my theory tho.
    Personally, i wouldn't put my g/f thro it. I think if your going to fill in the mole hill, you might as well be gay. But thats just me

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cant say ive tried it + i wud feel dubious about doing it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally the thought of it makes me feel sick! i just would'nt want to try it. but hey each to their own!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never tried it & 2 be honest the thought of it puts me off.

    But hey i might feel differently in a few yrs time! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its good, but nowhere near as good as normal sex. I do it because my b/f likes the tight thing, but i make sure i get what i like too.

    Devon
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tried it with my ex butt I wasn't very comfortable so it hurt. I vowed never to take it up the wrong one again, but with my new man I want to. He gets me really turned on, and uses his finger on me. That makes me come every time, and because we get on so well I should be able to relax and love it! I think men like the tightness and the fact that you will try that with them. Not everyones' cuppa t, but I will let you know!

    Little Angelxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was very reluctant to let my boyfriend anywhere near that hole but one day we got very randy and i sort of slipped in there, really!! It was great though!! I loved the fact that my bloke got loads of friction and it woz a great feling for me too.
    If u r gonna try it use lubrication or make sure that u r very wet.
    But most of all if u have never tried it don't put others off. If its not ur cup of tea then fine but how do u know til u've tried??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It sodding hurts. But maybe that's cos i only tried it the once, and i told him to 'get the f*ck out of there' straight away. The feeling doesn't do that much for me either - i've had a finger up there and it just feels WIERD

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some girls love it, others hate it. But either way, dont be pressured and ALWAYS use a lube, KY if youre using a condom (which you prolly should!) to stop it rotting.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit:
    Some girls love it, others hate it. But either way, dont be pressured and ALWAYS use a lube, KY if youre using a condom (which you prolly should!) to stop it rotting.


    you little hypocrite! "always use a lube" my arse... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/tdo13.gif"&gt;

    sometimes you've just got to keep going....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit:
    Some girls love it, others hate it. But either way, dont be pressured and ALWAYS use a lube, KY if youre using a condom (which you prolly should!) to stop it rotting.


    ALWAYS USE A CONDOM - do you know how many nasty bugs are lurking in your arse? If you dont use a condom you are risking infecting youtself with all kinds of nasties -

    oh and incidentally I have tried anal - did use a condom and plenty of ky and still didnt like it.

    IT AINT EVERYONES CUP OF TEA..so dont make em drink it

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have tried it once and it really bloody hurt,it brought tears to my eyes!!Although we didnt have any KY handy so that might explain that one.A finger up there really gets me going though as long as he`s gentle and my fella enjoys it to!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/hippy.gif"&gt; Smoke The Weed, Go Insane!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It’s tighter than the virgina, that’s why men like it but it’s an orifice that stuff is meant to come out of, not go into. Anal sex unnaturally stretches the anal sphincter (muscle) and eventually after such unnatural stretching it does not contract back properly resulting in incontinence of faeces i.e. less control over bowel evacuation/pooing your pants. Also, if the tissue just inside the anus is torn (fissure) it is very difficult for it to heal because of natural bowel movements; it is also very painful and frequently requires a surgical repair!!

    Don’t do it girls, pleasure for him can leave you in the shit – literally.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Navigator:
    It’s tighter than the virgina, that’s why men like it but it’s an orifice that stuff is meant to come out of, not go into. Anal sex unnaturally stretches the anal sphincter (muscle) and eventually after such unnatural stretching it does not contract back properly resulting in incontinence of faeces i.e. less control over bowel evacuation/pooing your pants. Also, if the tissue just inside the anus is torn (fissure) it is very difficult for it to heal because of natural bowel movements; it is also very painful and frequently requires a surgical repair!!

    Don’t do it girls, pleasure for him can leave you in the shit – literally.
    party pooper! hahahaha

    i remember when i was in the philipines i was with a couple hookers and while i was banging one the other one started shoving lubed beads up my you-know-what! it freaked me out at first but she said "relax, g.i., you cum numbah wan!" so i got back into the other babe and just as i started to bust a nut, she pulled them beads out and i thought i was going to blow the top of the girl's head off, i came so hard!

    so, i mean, there's something going on back there, some kind of nerves or something that give you pleasure. the way i figure, there must be a reason to have them there so we're meant to enjoy it. but, yeah, you gotta be careful...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hardcorp, the thing up there as u so nicely put it is ur g-spot (your prostate gland) if u think u blokes have a hard time hitting a girls gspot then u should try to find a blokes!!( not literally ofcourse) Why god hid it up ur arse is beyond me!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont spose it's even worth me getting involved with this one!! (better pull out now) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hotphoenix, you're sure that men have g-spot up the arse? OMG, what the fxxk is it doing up there? That is really wierd....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've recently experienced this back door sex for the first time. never thought I'd let any guy try it, but new bf very open, gentle, encouraging, caring, etc etc and has worked up to it slowly, and is very careful. Very surprised to find that I actually like it! Especially finding out what he can reach with his hands from that position!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some ladies like it others dont.. it depends on the girl! as Wolf correctly stated it can be about trust as wolf INCORRECTLY STATED its not just for gays! since when has it just been gays... some sex crazed monk in the med. times gave anal to many of his secret g/fs before he was killed for it! but thankfully it doesnt happen anymore (killing 4 it that is!!!!)just choice!

    2/3 times per session... she must walk like a penguin for a month! Anal isnt 100% healthy option u know you can do damage... ring spread and all that shit! (sorry ignore the pun! not deliberate!!!) personally pink is best but thats my opinion i certainly dont rule the brown out!!!

    as one of my V.SICK friends pointed out... "IF THE RED COVERS THE PINK.... POT THE BROWN!"

    if in doubt go for double top!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he doesnt go too deep it can be ok, but I've never been any further than that!
    I finger can be really nice though!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I'm not a girl, but my Ass is exit only! And I can understand why girls would think so too......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not a female but when performing back door pleasure, I give it slow with a bit of vasiline and belive me she really loves it. MMM....... <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not a female but when performing back door pleasure, I give it slow with a bit of vasiline and belive me she really loves it. MMM....... <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not a female but when performing back door pleasure, I give it slow with a bit of vasiline and belive me she really loves it. MMM....... <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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