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The clit

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey
me and my g/f have been having a bit of fun when we meet but she dont like me rubbing her clit. i know im a bit rough cos my last g/f used to love me being rough to make her orgasm. so i gotta be more gentle but i dont know how. she says she likes me fingering her more, but maybe thats cos it dont hurt her as im a bit more gentle, whats a good way to rub her clit and be gentle with it? whats the best things to do.and think of it from the point of view where i cannot see what im doing, if u understand that. also i asked her what she likes and she came out with the 'everything' remark, which dont help but i got her talking now and shes gona tell me/teach me what to do when we alone next time so that should help.
thanxs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
L-I-L

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dunno bout yours, but i know some girls prefer it if you rub the area around the clit, rather than just the clit itself... start direct contact when she's a bit more turned on... and make sure you get some of her juices on your finger first, that always helps (or so i'm told)!!



    [This message has been edited by luv-snail (edited 07-03-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There are other things that you could do to the clit.Dont try to hard to please,just fiddle(GENTLY)this'll build it up.You could massage the clit between your fingers-thumb and forefinger.
    If she's ready for oral sex,that'll be great too.
    Is yr girlfriend 'Girl From mars' on this site?She seems to be honest,so if she says everything then yr not disappointing her.
    Kissing her breasts,ears,neck,stomach-her sensitive areas at the same time as yr fingering is a great turn on! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Anyway,good luck and practice makes perfect-almost in some cases-I'm sure she wont mind being the 'guinea pig'
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    Is yr girlfriend 'Girl From mars' on this site?She seems to be honest,so if she says everything then yr not disappointing her.

    What made u say that????

    *Calls out to Emma*

    Heyyyyy, come and look @ this!

    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:

    Is yr girlfriend 'Girl From mars' on this site?She seems to be honest,so if she says everything then yr not disappointing her.

    grrrrrrr <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;


    I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hee hee hee, i wish she was hee hee.
    wot made you come out with that?
    nah my g/f dont come on the net very often, and certainly dont know about her, if she did i wouldnt say waht im saying now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    but thanxs for the comp saying that a younge, gorgeous,kind, caring lady like GFM could be my g/f
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK hold me back!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    I had an IQ test. The results came back negative
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey mate, i lurve my g/f and would never cheat or dump her, u should take what im saying about GFM as a complement, unless i was coming onto her which im not LOL.i lurve my gurlie, see i duno whos going out with who on here and all confwsed!!!!
    so ur GFM's bloke or something?
    i like the green smily best <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; red makes me worried
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I AM SOOOOO SORRY!!!
    I'M SURE I READ ONE OF HER POSTS WHICH MENTIONED THAT HER BOYFRIEND WAS LONELY ION LIFE BUT CHEANGED NAME TO ORIGINAL PRANKSTER.OH WELL, MY MISTAKE.SORRY ALL!!!
    FORGIVE ME <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    one more & ul b crazy poster

    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have kind of the same problem, i do like my clit being rubbed, but sometimes if a guy does it too hard, then I end up flinching, I guess everyones different, therefore we all have to learn our partners bodies!!
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lol when i got the links from drifter and mark saying "i think youd better look at this" and seeing it was in the sex forum i was well worried!!!! lol

    hehehe but it wasnt as bad as i thought! thanks for your compliments L-I-L <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; hehe

    cheeky i said that Broken Heart who changed his name to Original Prankster was my boyfriend! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; hehehehe

    mark calm down, hes only saying nice stuff about me and he has a gf anyway! hehe this is all quite funny. at least mark cares enough to get angry hehe, i cant imagine hed actually beat someone up for saying stuff like this but i appreciate you protecting me from the scary people trying to say nice things about me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; hehehehehe

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i aint scary...well not that much! wana know something that me and your b/f share in common...no i cant say it or it'll reveal who i am to the world and then i could be in for repriseal's with all the stuff i written here!!!
    L-I-L
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    you both live in manchester? you both like the offspring? lol tell meeeeeee!

    is there anyone you know whos likely to be reading these boards?

    dont worry though i understand if you dont want to say, id be the same, my friends started being really nosy and trying to find out the address in devious ways when i first told them about it, my dad still does!! i think hes more interested in the actual site though but hes sooooooo nosy and i dont want him knowing so its just tough!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know what it's like... my g/f is terrified that someone who knows her is going to read the stuff i post about her!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so pussy cat, wot do you do to over cum this problem? can anyone else give me ideas so my girl enjoys it. im gona find out what she really likes, but id like some advice pls!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've found that too, my g/friends clit becomes a little too sensitive if i concentrate on it too much...

    Come on girls, give us eager lads some tips here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; !!!! lol

    What is best? Gentle licks at a fast pace? Firm strokes? Circular motion?

    Hints please <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; !!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know there been a lot of posts here, but none really help, any girls out there wana be kind and help us pls?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You cant go wrong if you: 1)use her juices to reduce friction burns!, 2)Touch her breasts etc 3)Snog her passionately, 4)DONT PRESS ON THE CLIT TOO HARD! I prefere it when my boyfreind barely touches it,so i can only just feel him touching it,then when im close to orgasm,i tell him to press on slightly harder.This gives me the best orgasm ever! 5)Moan into her ear as though you are about to come 6)Rub your fingertips gently over her nipples 7)Touch the area around the clit too 8)Every now and then, slide your finger down her skin and into her vagina-without leaving contact with her skin-then slide it in&out a few times,then back up to the clit again 9)Rub in tiny circles, or get the finger next to your thumb around one side of the clit,and the index finger around the other side of the clit,and rub gently back&forth. 10)There is no 10.
    Hope i helped in some way,and hope i wasnt too explicit!
    Just thought of a 10)-ASK HER WHAT SHE LIKES! AND WHEN TRYING STUFF OUT ON HER,ASK HER WHAT SHE RATES IT OUT OF 10!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    oooh i dunno if i like the ranking idea, i mean if it wasnt good you might feel bad about giving a score of 3 and youd be tempted to always go above 5 coz that doesnt sound quite so bad! but its a good idea though, i just think in practice it might make the guy feel inadequate or the girl uncomfortable for telling the truth!

    but the other advice was pretty good, dont worry about being too explicit, we're hard to shock here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; and he did ask for details.

    It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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