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Love or Sex?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Which do you rate as more important? Would you rather live without sex or without true love?

Personally I'd have to say I'd rather live with true love, I can't imagine living the rest of my life without someone, but then again maybe I'd change my mind after a month without sex! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats a tough one but I could proberly live with out sex since I'm a virgin and I've lived without it for 19 years so I dont really know what I'm missing!!!! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would a 'true love' not want sex with you? Seems a daft question. I'm not sure I could develop a love that deep without some form of physical intimacy beforehand. Without the sex, isn't that just what we call Friendship?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give me the true love anyday.....oh look! I've got it ***beam***

    Love is much more fulfilling than sex, and hey - you can always masturbate!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sings *all you need is love*

    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love, but hey i've got both <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give me love any day. But you cant live with one without the other!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you can have sex without love but I dont beileve you can have love without sex in the long run, love and be emotional and physical
    normal both at the same time
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a bit of both?? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geees, thats a difficult one.

    sex is absolutely fantastic but I think I would rather have true love.

    if my girlfriend, for some reason, wanted to stop having sex (GOD, PLEASE NO), I would respect that and keep on loving her.

    love is more important to me.

    lets just hope I'm not faced with this ultimatum! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think sex, cos love is partly made up of lust, and without sex you wouldn't have that, so therefore love wouldn't be complete. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would rather keep them both! But if i had to, then i would ditch sex and keep love. I've been having sex for 6 months, but I've only been in love for 4 months. So i'd take out sex.
    *shrugs* I don't think i would like to go back to sex without love.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    interesting topic 4 discussion!

    i'd have 2 agree wiv 'marmite';

    love, but i have both already! and am looking foward to a wonderful life... rite after exams!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    interesting topic 4 discussion!

    i'd have 2 agree wiv 'marmite';

    love, but i have both already! and am looking foward to a wonderful life... rite after exams!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love definitely, i imagine that anyone who thinks sex is more important has never been in love.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite:
    <STRONG>Love definitely, i imagine that anyone who thinks sex is more important has never been in love.</STRONG>

    Not had either <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , but I'd rather have love.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I would say that sex I.E. making love is the physical expression of love, it compliments a strong relationship and can bring people closer,
    Sex on the other hand for the sake of sex or procreation is purely physical, some of you may disagree that sex and making love are different, but the way I see it is this, I have slept with girls I have not loved and eventually the sex becomes hollow no matter how passionate or kinky it was, while sex with a partner you have deep feelings can be wondrous even if the sex is less varied, back to topic, I would rather live without love, To love gives the option to be hurt, and I'm far to untrusting at times to really (sorry kind of pushing issues on you lot for this I apologise)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lil kazzy,

    Check the dates before you post! This is an old thread.

    Newbie guide: http://www.thesite.org/cgi-noperl/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=27&t=000001
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