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Sex with a friend!?!?!?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi ok I'm a virgin and I really need not to be!! :D!! I know one of the guy I'm friends with likes me and I feel the same about him and I really think he could be the right person to loss it to. How do you think I should go about talking about it? :confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why do you 'need' not to be a virgin? Sounds a bit odd.

    You'll probably feel a lot better if you lose it because it's the right time, rather than because you feel under some sort of obligation.

    Having said that if you like the guy and you're friends already why not get it together as a couple?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have had sex with a friend (tho. not first time)
    I can say atleast your not gonna find him acting 'weired' after.
    But maybe you should keep it for 'that someone'
    Talk about it Hypertheoretically with him and judge it from there
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK so I guess its not that I need not to be a virgin its more I feel ready and I really want to sleep with my friend.

    We proberly will become a couple. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aint that a bit of a flippant attitude to have? you say you will proabaly become a couple you really should be a couple first and thensee if that leads to sex not jus go out looking for the sex

    xx deeby doo xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i never understood why "kids" these days (woa...way to sound old) have to lose there virginity, its not an annoyance is a good virtue to have, you want to lose it to someone you care for, or by god dare i say it...."LOVE someone"....instead of fucking around with some guy...even if he is just a friend. I have great respect for girls/guys who are 18/19/20 and still hold their viginity.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you like this lad so much, why don't you ask him out first. Once ur in a relationship you might start to feel more for this person than just the desire to have sex with him.

    Don't just jump in head first, take it slowly, theres no rush. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

    *Hugz*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I always say:
    "don't screw the crew"
    the message is simple- never sleep with colleagues or friends. It always ends in disaster (eventually), or at least it'll never be the same again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Yeh I agree completely with the geezer above!
    NEVER sleep with mates or colleagues! Its a bad idea.. BUT if u wanna lose their friendship thats the way to go bout it!
    Speakin from personal experience! DONT DO IT! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to let Mr Bump and Grind know I am 19 and I proberly didnt realy explain the situation very well. I know I sound as though I'm willing to just jump into bed with my friend but its really not like that. I really do care about him and he feels the same about me, its proberly more knowing how to go about getting on to the subject. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey!

    Whats the rush. Its not going to be any worse the older you get.....well maybe it will in those later years!!!

    I lost my virginity when I was 24. Yes, you read that right....24! I wasn't desperate before meeting my girlfriend, but we talked about it a lot before we did it. I think what was special was that we were both virgins and that we both really liked each other and we felt we had a future together. (still together - now 17 months).

    JUst make sure you don't lose a really good mate.

    ...and if you can't be good, be careful!

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's no real rush to do it. I lost it to a girl that I didnt like and i hammered. Felt good to say i'd done it, but now i'm embarassed to say who it was with. make sure it is the right person.

    I've also had sex with a best friend... it was good- but when it ended so did the friendship. It made mutual friends feel awkward. Think about it!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gareth Gates lover:
    <STRONG>I'm having regular sex sessions wiv a mate of mine and its working fine!</STRONG>

    Yes, but you're 15, things will probably change, she's 19 and therefore, dare I say it, more mature?

    Sorry but I had to say it because I find the whole 'kids having sex' thing a bit disturbing, especially as my brother is that age and I know he doesn't even think like that!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks everyone, I think you are all right there is no reason why we should rush things if its ment to happen it will!! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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