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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Nothing:nervous: :nervous: :o

    You confusing child :crazyeyes
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm still a virgin - but i'm not exactly innocent. I have been with my first longterm boyfriend for over 4 months now, (before that I was only with guys for like a week at the time). I have no regrets about doing any of the things I have done with him, because I know he really loves and cares about me. Everything just seems to be coming so naturally.....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No regrets. I was with my ex for 2 years before we did the deed. And even then, it was on my suggestion. The sweety never would have been the first to ask. Took me 2 years to figure that out. Anyway, after the first time, we screwed like bunnies for the next 3.5 years we were together. Even in the midst of our messy break-up, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. Ah, memories. I'm gettin all teary! :blush:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not a little bit

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No regrets i was with my ex for 7 months before we did it. although looking back i loved him it wasnt the same for him :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is probably going to sound really bad looking at how much emphasis you all place on sex but it really doesn't mean that much to me. Its just sex. Maybe thats because i've never been with a girl that i was in love with, i don't know.

    Anywho, first time, don't regret but i would rather forget about it....quite embaressing (altho i think i may have mentioned it on here before). Was drunk on a school trip-holiday type of thing and i went back to this girls room and basically got the wrong hole :( (sorry randomgirl i didn't do it on purpose) and....um it took me a while to realise :crazyeyes

    Altho hearing your story Randomgir, has made me really worried that she might have been really affected by this, i hope not and she seemed fine afterwards *shrug*

    I couldn't face her for the rest of the..... actually i don't think we've spoken since. Ah well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i do have regrets about my first time. i was really drunk and didnt know what i was doing. we didnt use protection either. luckily i didnt get preggers and he was clean.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no... cuz it was my bf's first time as well :) and we went out together for 5 years..
    actually i didn't wanna have sex with him when he asked for it..as I wanted to wait..
    but then he said.. to me.. sooner or later.. i would give it to him...so.. why not do it now......
    anyway i was a bit stupid at the time...
    I believed that he was my future husband...
    sigh..
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no regrets, at all :)

    i'm still with him and love him to bits :blush:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jon_UK
    This is probably going to sound really bad looking at how much emphasis you all place on sex but it really doesn't mean that much to me. Its just sex. Maybe thats because i've never been with a girl that i was in love with, i don't know.

    Anywho, first time, don't regret but i would rather forget about it....quite embaressing (altho i think i may have mentioned it on here before). Was drunk on a school trip-holiday type of thing and i went back to this girls room and basically got the wrong hole :( (sorry randomgirl i didn't do it on purpose) and....um it took me a while to realise :crazyeyes

    Altho hearing your story Randomgir, has made me really worried that she might have been really affected by this, i hope not and she seemed fine afterwards *shrug*

    I couldn't face her for the rest of the..... actually i don't think we've spoken since. Ah well.
    I can't say whether or not the girl you refer to will have been affected but I think that after my mentioned experience I seemed fine. I hope she is ok about it. To be honest my problem with my own experience was far more to do with consent (or lack of) than to do with my anus.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Deeeeb
    Ignore him, he is a twat...

    Is that so ????
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Randomgirl
    I can't say whether or not the girl you refer to will have been affected but I think that after my mentioned experience I seemed fine. I hope she is ok about it. To be honest my problem with my own experience was far more to do with consent (or lack of) than to do with my anus.

    Well in my case it was an accident (and i apologised a lot as i remember) so hopefully it was ok.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by D_M_X


    Is that so ????
    We know that you are the same person as Ghostface, you don't fool anyone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Randomgirl
    We know that you are the same person as Ghostface, you don't fool anyone.

    I never tried to fool anyone !

    Can't exactly use other name after being banned !
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jon_UK


    Well in my case it was an accident (and i apologised a lot as i remember) so hopefully it was ok.
    Then it was an honest mistake and she shouldn't really have too much of a problem with it! If my experience had been "accidental" on his part and he'd apologised then I wouldn't have minded really. As I said already, it was more of an "issue" to do with consent.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jon_UK
    This is probably going to sound really bad looking at how much emphasis you all place on sex but it really doesn't mean that much to me. Its just sex. Maybe thats because i've never been with a girl that i was in love with, i don't know.

    Nah, I think that's a typical blokey perspective. Blame it on the testosterone! Although you might find that as you mature this will change.

    Although wierdly, it was my boyfriend who made us wait for so long. About 3 weeks after we got together we almost had sex, he'd gone through the embarrasment of blagging a condom from his flatmate (:eek: ), put it on, and then I said that I'd never done it before...and he just stopped and murmered something about wanting my first time to be 'perfect'. Another time he said he wanted his first time to be 'perfect' (which at the time made me feel a bit shitty, that maybe he thought I wasn't the right girl etc.). It was all most bizarre
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Meryn


    Nah, I think that's a typical blokey perspective. Blame it on the testosterone! Although you might find that as you mature this will change.

    Perhaps but i doubt maturity will change it. At 19 (and i realise this isn't that old) most of my friends have been in love once and they all agree that that is what gave meaning to sex.

    I think finding someone special to have sex with is what makes sex special, not your age or maturity.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by D_M_X


    I never tried to fool anyone !

    Can't exactly use other name after being banned !

    Dude!! What the hell!!! Yer totally blowin yer cover!!!:eek: :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PositivePain


    Dude!! What the hell!!! Yer totally blowin yer cover!!!:eek: :D

    I have ressurected more then once, I can do so again and again and again !!!!!

    You can't keep a good man down especially not nit-wits in here !
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I completely regret my first time as I did it in a drunken haze with my best mate who I still can talk to without getting mortified and am no way as close to him as used to be.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PositivePain


    Dude!! What the hell!!! Yer totally blowin yer cover!!!:eek: :D

    Like we didn't know :rolleyes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I sort of regret mine......he was smooth talking but a total player, I knew what he wanted but he was just so good looking. I'm glad I did though in some ways, I was ready for it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When I was with my bf I thought it was great that he was the one I lost my viginity to. I thought I'd be glad to remember him forever. But then we broke up and he proved himself to be a complete and utter twat and now I regret doing it with him. Not the sex but the fact that he's the bloke I have to remember for the rest of my life. :(

    :heart: saucepot :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by saucepot
    Not the sex but the fact that he's the bloke I have to remember for the rest of my life. :(

    :heart: saucepot :heart:

    I know exactly what you mean. I've got 5 years worth of my guy burned into my brain. Although, no, in my case I still can't say I regret it. Truth be told, I wouldn't change a thing even if I could. In a lot of ways, he made me who I am today, and I don't think I'm all that bad!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Deeeeb


    Like we didn't know :rolleyes:

    *Claps hands*

    Well done Watson !
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