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The male G-spot: to probe or not to probe?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm thinking of trying to find my blokes G-spot. This is a bit taboo I reckon, and I'm not sure whether it's a good idea. Guys: wud u like it if your gfs tried to find yours, and wud u admit it anyway if you wanted them to? Girls: advice from anyone who has done this, and any tips? Is it worth it?

Also: we're thinking of having anal sex; good or bad? Do you really need extra thick rubbers, or will normal ones do? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whatever you do, tell him first <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends what your into hey? I personally wouldn't mind but then I'm pretty liberated.. lmao!

    Speak with him about it, he'll probably think its being 'gay' and all that crap, if your wanting anal sex then use plenty of lubricant and relax... my advice for the day....

    If you want to be facing him as well (which is always nice) just lye on your back your legs over his shoulders, he'll be able to 'probe' in further and you can have him staring into your eyes.... again lub and relax..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just whatever you do dont let him be taken by surprise! 'Never change lanes without indicating' <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Above all else, if you do go for it... BE CAREFULL!

    The skin of the rectum is very thin indeed, and the slightest scratch could tear (and will take ages to heal anyway), so plenty of lubrication, very short and smooth fingernails, and lots and lots of care.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Basically what everyone else has said: Ask first, and achtung baby.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was having this conversation with my man yesterday in fact. He quite likes the idea, personally it freaks me out a bit. He seems to think pretty much most people do it. Would you say that's a fair assumption?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your talking about going right for his arse but initially try casually stroking the area between his ball and arse, if he enjoys it you'll notice!, espeically the closer to his arse you get.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    anal sex is quite interesting i must say.
    be carful if he's a big boy, use lots of lube as already suggets and if ur probing him make sure ur nails arent sharp or anything like that...
    enjoy <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You can get ultra strong condoms too for anal sex yes
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