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Desensitised

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Does anyone think that over time you can become desensitised to sexual activity and it takes harder and harder methods to get yourself off? I'm thinking i'm headed that way. Maybe i've spunked my limits. Maybe I need to take 2 weeks off of anything sexual so that slow, loving sex can be a turn on again. Too much rough stuff.

I can imagine girls with vibrators must get some kind of overkill too. A XXX RPM vibrating fat and solid lump of gyrating plastic is surely going to dull out basic fucking?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    2 weeks or even better two months without sex may be the answer to your problem!!try it and after the first month you'll want it like a lunatic......at the end of the second month you ll be a crazy sex machine....and you'll be the most pleased human being only with the smell of the persons body that you'll have by your side...just imagine if you have sex after that period...i've tried that with a huge success!!!:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i've come to the conclusion that after years of misuse my penis is dying and becoming weak as it heads to deaths door.

    Someone help me out and find out where I can purchase Schisandra Extract in the UK. I reckon a 2 week break and a course of this stuff should revitalise me :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SOLGAR American Ginseng is now my answer. The other one seems to be low on worldwide stocks :o
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay, is there a way of reversing desensitise?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Indeed there is Harmless...

    Just exchange the "d" for an "r". :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Okay, is there a way of reversing desensitise?

    Hope so. I'm gonna leave it be for 2 weeks and hopefully it will be back to the good old days of "Mind of its own".... ahhhh I miss those days...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sir Cum


    Hope so. I'm gonna leave it be for 2 weeks and hopefully it will be back to the good old days of "Mind of its own".... ahhhh I miss those days...
    I have no problems of the "Mind of it's own" syndrome !
    OK, so you all know I'm gay.
    I only have to look at a nice bum, in a pair of tight blue Levis, & the old friend reaches for the stars !
    Also have no problem with the morning glory.
    In fact my partner is always rolling his eyes whenever a bulge starts in my boxers !
    For me it seems that it's the quality & quantity of the liquid that seems to be reducing as years go by.
    The sensation of cumming is as strong as ever, it's just what comes out the end that's reducing !
    Any ideas to improve this area.
    Does the production of seimen reduce as you get older ?
    BTW, I've always been a bit of a wanker ! ! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh don't get me wrong, depending on the sights and situation the old boy will pop up for a look. But I miss the days where it would decide to appear for no particular reason (morning glory is for a reason and i still get that :) ).

    Cum quantity as you get older? Not sure. But I seem to be producing more now than ever before. I virtually drowned a girl the other week. I think the secret is...PMd to you ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sir Cum

    Cum quantity as you get older? Not sure. But I seem to be producing more now than ever before. I virtually drowned a girl the other week. I think the secret is...PMd to you ;)

    What? Come on what’s the secret?

    I normally cum lots when turned on, but er recently I've be having quick wanks (My gf fault!) and the load hasn’t been big.

    So what have I got to eat/drink to increase it then? Come on you can tell me. I wont tell another soul!:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What is it with you guys & wanting to produce as much spunk as you can? I'm sure most girls won't be complaining there isn't enough!:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by tweety
    What is it with you guys & wanting to produce as much spunk as you can? I'm sure most girls won't be complaining there isn't enough!:p

    More fun seeing her clear off lots of cum then a little isn’t it!;)

    I mean if you're going to shoot in her face, what's the point of a little wee bit of cum hitting her in the face! You want lots of it don't ya.;)

    And it's more likely to trickle down onto her tits if there lots of it isn’t it! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    More fun seeing her clear off lots of cum then a little isn’t it!;)

    I mean if you're going to shoot in her face, what's the point of a little wee bit of cum hitting her in the face! You want lots of it don't ya.;)

    And it's more likely to trickle down onto her tits if there lots of it isn’t it! :p

    Glad to think your taking you g/f thoughts/feelings into account.:p :D

    Seriously though i guess it's true & from what i can gather, the messier (sp?) the better when cumming on your g/f!

    Men...you don't half work strangly sometimes.:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by tweety
    What is it with you guys & wanting to produce as much spunk as you can? I'm sure most girls won't be complaining there isn't enough!:p
    It's not wanting to produce as much as possible, it's when you don't produce as much as you used to & thinking that maybe there is something wrong & want to make things like they were before.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But I wouldn’t actually know tho, having not er……..

    Anyway I can’t think of a reason why bloke would like it messier, maybe it’s to do with marking your Territory!;)

    Or maybe it’s just funny?, could be porno link somewhere in there. I don’t know why.

    But er, I just want an even bigger load, reason being I’m greedy!!
    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by tweety


    Glad to think your taking you g/f thoughts/feelings into account.:p :D

    I always do!:) :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Theres actually a medical condition you can get that causes a dramatic drop in how much cum you produce.

    Erm anyway...some useless facts hehe
    • The average speed of ejaculation has been measured to be approximately 45 km/hr
    • An average ejaculation produces approximately two teaspoons of semen (this amount decreases with age, and increases with time since last ejaculation)
    • As for the quantity of ejaculate, the two biggest contributors are genetics (which you have no control over) and time since last ejaculation (which you do have control over).
    • By increasing your PC muscle strength. After a few months, you should notice stronger, more powerful orgasms and ejaculations

    Arent i a clever girlie hehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    By increasing your PC muscle strength. After a few months, you should notice stronger, more powerful orgasms and ejaculations

    :D I do this!:p
    Arent i a clever girlie hehe

    Yes you are, Pat on the head and a gold star my dear!:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    What? Come on what’s the secret?

    I normally cum lots when turned on, but er recently I've be having quick wanks (My gf fault!) and the load hasn’t been big.

    So what have I got to eat/drink to increase it then? Come on you can tell me. I wont tell another soul!:D
    If you haven't noticed, I just messaged you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ocean Sailor

    If you haven't noticed, I just messaged you.

    Yep, cheers!

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOL :lol: :rolleyes:
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