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All the Men..
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Right guys. Just been having a discussion about men and fidelity. Before you say it I am aware that women can be just as bad but generally men are the wrong'uns 
A male collegue who is very blunt and never holds back from the truth told a few of us girlies that men really can't be faithful. Sex is non emotional where they are concerned and they are rules by their pants for real!
He has been married for 10 years and says although he has only been unfaithful once in that time if an offer came along on a night out and he was feeling randy he would do it and feel no guilt afterwards! He said he loves her more than life itself but could still detach himself from that and 'release' his tensions.
Are men all liars cheats and sex mad? (tehe)
Obviously you're all going to fight your defense and give it the 'We are not all like that' blah blah but I want HONEST opinions from you.
Promise not to tell
A male collegue who is very blunt and never holds back from the truth told a few of us girlies that men really can't be faithful. Sex is non emotional where they are concerned and they are rules by their pants for real!
He has been married for 10 years and says although he has only been unfaithful once in that time if an offer came along on a night out and he was feeling randy he would do it and feel no guilt afterwards! He said he loves her more than life itself but could still detach himself from that and 'release' his tensions.
Are men all liars cheats and sex mad? (tehe)
Obviously you're all going to fight your defense and give it the 'We are not all like that' blah blah but I want HONEST opinions from you.
Promise not to tell
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And i would hope that was the same for her:p
Always wanted a girl to test me with one of the girls they send out to catch you out
"Hay sugar plump won't to fuck me" kind of thing would make me roll to see the hidden video afterwards....:)
Sorry long day ain't makeing alot of sense:crazyeyes
Speaking for myself, at least. There's far more to life than sex.
Just read a another of your threads about not trusting blokes
What give's??
:rolleyes:
We were just having the conversation and I thought I'd ask so-rrr-eeee bob
I agree that sex can be unemotional for me, sad though it is sometimes i don't think using my brains
i'm positive if i cheated on a long term girl friend i would feel guilty but as to whether i would cheat in that position or not i don't know, i can't read the future so it could happen.
Are men all liars cheats and sex mad? (tehe)
yes at some point or another pretty much most of us are in my opinion whether we mean it or not.
And Mistress, I don't think all of them are sex crazed unfaithful idiots. Just a minority giving the rest a bad name
" i'm crap with name's and i would forget which one i was with";)
Well not always but on this yes. Being honest usually get me into more trouble than lying usually tho
maybe i'm just better at lying
Lets face it, you started this topic to persuade yourself that you can't trust men. You ignored any comments from men being honest when they say they wouldn't cheat or they would feel guilty, then you take the ONE comment saying "Yes you are right" and thank him for being the only honest one!
Why start the fucking topic if you've already made your mind up.
To say that generally men are the wrong'uns is a gross generalisation. Women are doing it more and more these days too. And just to emphasise my point, yes, I've been there & done that.
They wouldn't won't a girlfriend to cheat on them.
So i asked them about cheating and ,apparently its only allowed on holiday ???:eek2: (answer from drunk students though!)
So maybe that just the view of a few but i'm gonna be keeping my bf in this country from now on!!!:D
Personally i don't think guys are that bad. They tend, in my experience, to be able to keep it in their pants! Well i'm hoping so anyway!
perhaps women are more strong about this thing..
But I'm sex mad
Nothing you say, nothing you do, and certainly nothing you do with another lover baby.
There is more to a relationship than sex, and I would never betray my gf's trust or love by going behind her back, because I don't want to hurt her and because I love her too much.
Yes, there are some people in the world, who have the desire to sleep with as many women as possible, but the ones I know who have pulled that off seem to be the shallowes, non-emotional excuses for people i have ever met, IMHO
I'm not saying cheating is cool, i'm not saying that all men enjoy cheating i just think that its impossible to see the future and we are all, at the end of the day, human. We sometimes give into weakness.
and for the record i have exactly the same view of women.