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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
does any other girl out there hate their boobs, i hate mine so much! they're pretty big, around an F cup. my male friends always compliment me about them but no bloke has ever seen them in daylight!
once i take my bra off they're really saggy and look disgusting.
it doesnt help seeing 'perfect' boobs on tv, in newspapers etc. every day, it seems that noone else shares my problem.
I've even had a couple of long-term boyfriends but even they didnt see my boobs properly, which i'm pretty sure they got v.pissed off about! I would love to be able to be comfortable with a bloke seeing me naked, but i know my boobs would be such a turnoff. is there anyone with similar problems, or do you blokes really care about stuff like this?
(sorry if this has been said already the search thing didnt work, also, wasnt too sure which forum to put this in) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *is 34DD*

    I HATE 'em.
    I would whine incessantly about trying to find a decent bra (that isn't ridiculously expensive) but, um, I won't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *ali*:
    <STRONG>does any other girl out there hate their boobs, i hate mine so much! they're pretty big, around an F cup. my male friends always compliment me about them but no bloke has ever seen them in daylight!
    once i take my bra off they're really saggy and look disgusting.
    it doesnt help seeing 'perfect' boobs on tv, in newspapers etc. every day, it seems that noone else shares my problem.
    I've even had a couple of long-term boyfriends but even they didnt see my boobs properly, which i'm pretty sure they got v.pissed off about! I would love to be able to be comfortable with a bloke seeing me naked, but i know my boobs would be such a turnoff. is there anyone with similar problems, or do you blokes really care about stuff like this?
    (sorry if this has been said already the search thing didnt work, also, wasnt too sure which forum to put this in) <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    I know what you're going through.
    I've had issues for ages abt them ever since i lost a lot of weight. The inside of my breasts seemed to disappear (well not totally lol) and i was left with lots of saggy skin... sounds nice eh?!

    First few times by boyf saw me naked i wouldn't take my bra off .. actually it was longer than a few times it was prob 6 months!
    I even had a shower with him + left my bra on, that's how self concious i was about them.

    Since then ive just realised with the help of my boyf that it doesn't really matter as much as i thought it did. Dont get me wrong, i still dont like them but heh, cant do much abt it at the mo.

    So many friends have the same prob and i promise ur in the majority - most people dont have perfectly shaped breasts it's just we only see the ppl who have + that's mostly through surgery!

    I hope it's helped

    Em
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, i'm not too keen on mine either. But i suppose boobs are boobs to lads. As long as you have them, i don't think they mind too much what they look like!
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I think every girl has issues about her boobs, whether it be the shape, size or size and colour of their nipples. I'd say most girls have some sort of problem with the way their chest looks,which is sad in a way, cos everyone is different and should be proud of what they have and glad that they don't look like everyone else. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    *Hugz*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi, my name is go_away, and I am a 30F <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> which for someone who is 5ft2, and a size 10 isnt really very proportional!

    I don't hate them, I've mangaged to have some good bras but fuck!! they hurt my back neck and shoulders too much!
    Im starting yoga next week that should help my posture and hopefully i'll lose some weight with it, but recently i've been thinking about going under the knife cos of the pain but that wont be for a few years yet and i havent considered the risks

    Oh well, boobs eh? who'd ave em? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by go_away:
    <STRONG>Hi, my name is go_away, and I am a 30F <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> which for someone who is 5ft2, and a size 10 isnt really very proportional!

    I don't hate them, I've mangaged to have some good bras but fuck!! they hurt my back neck and shoulders too much!
    Im starting yoga next week that should help my posture and hopefully i'll lose some weight with it, but recently i've been thinking about going under the knife cos of the pain but that wont be for a few years yet and i havent considered the risks

    Oh well, boobs eh? who'd ave em? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>


    Go_away? really?!Im 5ft 5 and a size 10 and 30dd/32dd (depends what shop and you wouldnt believe how hard it is finding a bra...but how the helll do you find one?>do u ahve to do it through mail order or what?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well Im 5'4 and 34b which is kinda proportional but for years and years I was tormented for my flat chested ness which just made me hate them anyways.

    bring on the padded bras...

    arent they a apin in the...chest? why?

    but I have been thinking recently...going off the subject a bit...
    if men were made first...with thier nipples, the we were made second with the breasts and all their functions...why dont men have breasts if they are all first and so 'all important' and what the hell is the use of nipple on men? do they grant wishes or something?

    sorry about that.

    Back onto the subject...breasts, I hate them..
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some blokes love big breasts, look ar jordon, surly some men must like her's, even they they look stuck on. Personally i dont mind, girls with huge breasts are ok, i like girls with smaller breasts though, but then they are normally smaller girls. Girls who are big and no breasts i dont like, same as girls who are small with big breasts. It all depends on the guy.

    Anyways once your naked, im sure a bloke doesnt care what your breasts look like, they're peobably just hapopy your naked in front of them. But like i say, most blokes have their favs, but at the end of the day, dont really care!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Argh just don't get me started. Thankfully I have 3 years of 'growing' left to do. I seem to be slowly growing taller but my chest isn't budging an inch! I'm a 34B and 5'2" (near enough to wozaline). It doesn't help that a mate of mine who is the same height is something like a 36C. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Mind you, my being a size 6/8 (depending on which shop you go into) doesn't really bode well...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go_away? really?!Im 5ft 5 and a size 10 and 30dd/32dd (depends what shop and you wouldnt believe how hard it is finding a bra...but how the helll do you find one?>do u ahve to do it through mail order or what?
    I dont know where abouts you live but I had to get mine from Rigby and Peller in London for about £50 a bra *ouch* cos all the other shops were telling me I was a different size just so they could shift their stock. But the Prima Donna range kicks ass too and I dont think its that expensive

    Its really unfair for us girls who are small around the chest, but a large cup size to find a nice bra without having to spend a fortune!! There is a huuuuge gap in the market for 30/32's-D or aboves!

    If you want to check it out go here to have a gander but if you are going to order make sure you have the right size <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    £50?! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Bloody hell that's a bit on the pricey side for a bra!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It was either that or basically being fobbed off from countless stores telling me I was a 36B/A so they could shift their stock and ending up with me buying something which would have given less support than 2 hankerchiefs tied together with string. But I've had these bras for well over a year and they still give fantastic support, have been though the wash endless times and look quite sexy too! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was just thinking...
    Does your breast size matters to you girls out there?

    I know the shape matters (well, you girls don't like them saggy, right?), but size as well?

    I think a lot of guys won't mind any breasts that are B cup or above...(A cup almost don't exist in western world).

    About the shape, or saggy-ness...isn't that proportional to the amount of body fat (to a degree)?

    Maybe I shouldn't have reply to this thread, since it seems like it's a girls' topic, but I'm just interested...(always find breasts very interesting <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your breast size does matter if, like me, you 5'2 and an F cup, not exactly in proportion is it? i care a lot more about their shape though.
    its good that you replyed coz i wanted to know if blokes really care about stuff like this, does their shape really matter, would it be a complete turn off if the girl you fancied had saggy boobs? coz i really think it would.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i replied, i replied!!! ^^^^^ See up there <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Depends how saggy, saggy as in old woman saggy is a turn of, but when your lying down, it doesn matter anyways, but a bit of a drop where you can do the pencil test type thing doesnt matter really. My ex used to be able to hold her mobile phone under her's, i found it funny, but it didnt turn me off, as while they hung down, i didnt really notice it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is a 36DD, and use to cry every time i got a fitting in a shop and was told that i needed to go up a cup size again <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    now, they dont really bother me, most of my friends get more upset becos they dont have much and tops that are low cut do nothing for them.


    if they are painful, causing back ache etc, it mayb a good idea to go to ya doctor. it maybe a bit extreme but if they are damaging your health, breast reduction could b an option. but that would have to be a last case scenario(spelling?)

    also the best ever bra i have ever brought would b the bioform bras from Charnos, they mayb a bit pricy but they are brill, instead of squashing them down like minimisers do, they give u great support and a great shape.
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Saggy breasts...Well, as long as they don't hang down to your belly button, then I think you're doing fine.

    For me, any thing from 34B to 36DD (haven't come across DD size yet...after all, I've only got my hands on two women's breasts.) is great.

    Shape and size really don't bother me, honestly, but of course within limits.

    The most important is that they are natural. They're hard to find nowadays.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably the only part of my body I do like. I'm a 36C and guys seem to like them especially my BF though he's more of an arse guy.
    They come in handy when I'm doing my party trick, drinking a bottle using only my cleavage hehehe <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tashmania:
    <STRONG>Argh just don't get me started. Thankfully I have 3 years of 'growing' left to do. I seem to be slowly growing taller but my chest isn't budging an inch! I'm a 34B and 5'2" (near enough to wozaline). It doesn't help that a mate of mine who is the same height is something like a 36C. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Mind you, my being a size 6/8 (depending on which shop you go into) doesn't really bode well...</STRONG>

    Do I need to pull up the thread where you said you'd never reveal your size? <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh, noticed someone mentioned party tricks, i can, using my cleavage, put lipstick on! marvelous yet pointless! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a 36C and totaly hate them!! My boyfriend thinks they are great but hes never seen them out of my bra!! But hes great about it totaly understands how I feel and would never push me into letting him see them!! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm 5ft 7" and a 32/34b and i hate mine i wish they were bigger. i really d think i am 2 small. my boyfriend doesn't think so but i do i absoloutely hate them. men are so lucky they don't have the troubles that girls have.

    Basically i hate them and wish we didn't have to put up with them <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wozaline:
    [QB] but I have been thinking recently...going off the subject a bit...
    if men were made first...with thier nipples, the we were made second with the breasts and all their functions...why dont men have breasts if they are all first and so 'all important' and what the hell is the use of nipple on men? do they grant wishes or something?

    sorry about that.

    QB]

    All babies start out as female. If you develop lots of testosterone you then develop as male. However, this happens after nipples have developed. Whether or not they turn into breasts is the important bit. See, a bit of useless trivia for you!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *likes mine more than I used to*
    I'm 5'4 [ooh popular height] and a 34C. All my mates are shorter or taller than me, but with bigger breasts.

    What is really annoying, is that
    -some say "you're so lucky, you can go bra-less" etc.
    - sing that Shakira line ["look at my breasts they're small and humble, so you don't confuse them with mountains"] I mean there should be a rule against that!
    -and that they complain about how big they are; I wouldn't mind having a pair like that!

    But hey, you always want what you don't have.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gems:
    <STRONG>

    All babies start out as female. If you develop lots of testosterone you then develop as male. However, this happens after nipples have developed. Whether or not they turn into breasts is the important bit. See, a bit of useless trivia for you!</STRONG>

    are you completely sure that babies start out as female? i was under the impression that gender was decided at the moment of conception due to whether the sperm had a X chromosome or a Y chromosome. please correct me if im wrong.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think most blokes (myself included) only really mind if they're in proportion.

    Big girl + small breasts X
    Small girl + big breasts X
    Small girl + small breasts 8D
    Big girl + big breasts 8|

    I would most definitely prefer a girl whose breasts are in proportion with the rest of her body, rather than humongous ones that look totally ridiculous
    (ie. Jordan = yuck! )
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The size shouldn't really matter anyway, it's what's inside that counts.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well ye-es, but a decent pair of knockers wouldn't go amiss.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 5'2. and im size 10/12 depending! BUT on top im a 32FF which is a total pain in da arse because when it comes to going shopping sometimes a size 16 is even tight!
    And i hate trying to buy bras! i know exactly how everyone feels about the prices! im so jealous of the girls who are smaller and can by bras for a tenner when im left forking out £30 everytime i want a new one!! and the thing is i LOVE underwear so im always broke, and i keep growning which adds insult to injury!!

    And i know about the saggy feeling! i look in da mirror and think how can any one find these attractive and a turn on! <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big girl + small breasts X

    shuttaaapa ya face! hehehe <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> we cant help it if we are naturally out of proportion its people who do it by surgery who let us down - let those baby's wiggle! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> *shimmy shimmy* <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow bright:
    <STRONG>

    are you completely sure that babies start out as female? i was under the impression that gender was decided at the moment of conception due to whether the sperm had a X chromosome or a Y chromosome. please correct me if im wrong.</STRONG>

    Not sure about that - definately something to do with testosterone though
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