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i was just wounderin,guys................

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
u guys that have slept with a virgin.
r u bothered if she bleeds?odd question i know,but im a virgin,and mite be having sex wiv my bf v soon,im just scared i will bleed everywhere and its gonna be vvvv embarrasing for me,and maybe him,so does blood matter?!?!!!
i will be vvvvvvvv greatful for all replies.
love ya all
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    look ur ovbiously worried, so u probably dont feel ready yet, i think it might be betta if u wait, anyways my ex g/f wasnt a virgin but bleed once and it was a bit sick but ok, to clean sheets just use warm water and a sponge, comes right out, or just put an old (clean) towel under ur bum incase u do bleed. and u wont bleed loads, just a bit, its not like ur cutting a vein, it'll be say if u feel over and just cut ur leg a tad type bleeding probs, better to ask the girls on this one!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no way u can still be worried and ready 4 sex i reckon. its probably just nerves about not kowing what to expect. im sure it will be fine scaredycat <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; from what iv heard it does hurt, but gets better with time.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by scaredycat!:
    u guys that have slept with a virgin.
    r u bothered if she bleeds?odd question i know,but im a virgin,and mite be having sex wiv my bf v soon,im just scared i will bleed everywhere and its gonna be vvvv embarrasing for me,and maybe him,so does blood matter?!?!!!
    i will be vvvvvvvv greatful for all replies.
    love ya all
    xxxxxxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    you probably won't even notice the blood & it didn't hurt me. But that's just me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sheers guys,and gals!
    i think im gonna wait tho.if it feels right wen the time arives,trhen i will go 4it,but not if i dont feel comfortable,does that sound like a good idea????
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with drifter, i reckon you are ready as your askign the right questions not stupid ones. You're bound to be worried hunny but it goes without saying.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by scaredycat!:
    sheers guys,and gals!
    i think im gonna wait tho.if it feels right wen the time arives,trhen i will go 4it,but not if i dont feel comfortable,does that sound like a good idea????

    so long as ur not legless or high when the time comes, sounds like a great idea.

    And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok,i think im gonna go for it,im quite excited really!just a tad nervouse!its natural for a women!!

    i have told him that i dont want either of us to be drunk,its not a good idea,plus i want to remember it!!oh,and a guys performance deteriorates with excesive alcahol consumption!!!(apparently!!) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good for you scaredycat.

    just take it slow and remember, it's suppose to be fun and enjoyable. make sure that it is... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Take your time and do only what you think is right. If it does not feel right, don't do it! He should repect your feelings!
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