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Lack of emotion?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

I've been with my new girl for about 2 months and I'm a bit concerned. I love being with her and we have fun together, whats concerning me is that I'm not sure what I feel for her. I really care for her and am happy I'm with her, BUT when I think to myself "why I am with her?" I can't think of a reason. I fancy her but when we make love its the comfort I want it for. I do look at her and think "cor" but I never really really just want to dive into bed with her. Also I still miss my ex (we split about 5 months ago)when I see the train that I used to get to go and see her. When I went to see my ex I used to get very excited but when I got and see my new girl I don't get as excited.

Basically I'm concerned I'm not with this girl for the right reasons, yet I can't remember what I felt like at this stage with my ex (we were together 4 years) but surely after 2 months my feelings should be deepening.

What do you think?
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