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DESPERATE FOR HELP - ALL ADVICE GRATEFULLY RECEIVED!!!
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Dear All,
I'm sure you've all heard this before but... I'm not sure if I've ever cum/had an orgasm before. I'm sure I've not had an orgasm before, tho I'm sure I've been close, and I'm not sure if I've ever cum before. I don't seem to be able to do either, alone or with b/f (now ex). How can I tell if I've cum/had an orgasm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!!!!
Choc xxx
I'm sure you've all heard this before but... I'm not sure if I've ever cum/had an orgasm before. I'm sure I've not had an orgasm before, tho I'm sure I've been close, and I'm not sure if I've ever cum before. I don't seem to be able to do either, alone or with b/f (now ex). How can I tell if I've cum/had an orgasm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!!!!
Choc xxx
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as for the orgasms, u'll know when u have had one <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif">
i dont really know how to define it so youd know.... i think you would know though.
youo have the same name as i used to use on the net before this one <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
I wouldnt worry tho, ive never had an orgasm either.
Have you ever been to see a gynacologist (sp)?? It could be that there is an anotomical reason for this.
One of my female friends is sexually very well adjusted and generally very happy-go-lucky, but she's only ever had an orgasm with one specific guy. She's been with what I suppose is the "average" number of guys for her age but only ever found one who could make her come. Maybe you've not found a guy who's got the sexual "qualifications" yet??
[This message has been edited by Lord of Little (edited 30-07-2001).]
God this doesn't make much sense!!!