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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
K I just turned 19, never had a g/f, never got laid, but Id imagine I could If I gave it a half decent effort. But the thing is, is that I dont really care that much, i got other things I like doing. I dont know if its that of if I just avoid it, theres also a stigma surrounding sex since I come from a religious family, Cant really tell. I also find myself waiting for girls to come to ME which Im starting to find as a bit of a waste of time. It would seem a shame to me tho If i did do it with some bitch and then regreted it.
any suggestions? should I force it upon myself or just wait a while? the pressure from my friends is mounting!

PS: the average age for sex in Canada is alot higher than in England I understand. (what is it now, 11?) <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first of all, there is no point in losing your virginity as a consequence of peer pressure - you'll only end up looking back with regret.
    second of all, we all know that there are young teenage pregnancies in the UK, but what about the US??
    and no, 17 is actually the average age for a girl to lose her virginity so get your facts straight!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Listen to crazysexycool's advice thats some good advice by the way!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thankyou! :-D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    uh, first off, you might want to try referring to women as something other than bitches. It might score you a few more points...but then again, what do I know...I'm just another bitch!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beachsoclose:
    <STRONG>uh, first off, you might want to try referring to women as something other than bitches....I'm just another bitch!</STRONG>

    I think they liked to be called "birds". <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WAIT? FOR A WOMAN? Have you got that much time!

    My Friend... i hate to admit i am a little younger than you but even my knowledge says that waitin for "that" woman is a waste of time... use it wisely... watch paint dry... itll be quicer!

    PEER PRESSURE SCHMEER PRESSURE... tell them were to go... or just ignore them!

    SEX is not what its hyped to be in fact it can be boring (if u r unlucky anyway!) and often the same again n again... unless you get yourself an interesting girl... although i have had a girl or too cum on to me i think that the ratio is 50:1 in favour of me makin the 1st move!

    Really... u aint gonna be the only person not to have had sex and u r not the only one not to particularly go out for it! it doesnt make u strange Crazysexycool was right follow her and youll do ok!

    Wish you all the luck in the wolrd!

    Nomad. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my knowledge says that waitin for "that" woman is a waste of time... use it wisely... watch paint dry... itll be quicer!

    Nooooo, don't listen to him! Wait. You don't have to wait for "the ONE" but there definately will be someone coming along in your life at some stage who will be pretty darned close to it, and when the time is right you hang on to her and I guarentee it will be soooo worth it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey well what can I say? I have my moments <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    Join me for dinner sometime Kathryn and I'll show you what other surprises I've got hidden away! <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
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