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To punish or be punished?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Do you prefer to be the boss in a physical relationship? Or do you like to submit?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey depends wot kinda mood im in <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Boss, its easier. But Im not averse to being dominated <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey!!

    I prefer to be the boss in bed but sometimes I have no choice lol!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Variety is the spice of life.

    Mind you, I'm not really into the Sub-Dom stuff at all. I want an equal partner, not a boss to be a slave for, nor some skivvy I boss around to make myself feel better.

    In general, I'm the more experienced person in my relationships, so often partners expect me to 'take the lead' a bit more. However, being the more experienced can also make me the more jaded, so following the lead of a partner for whom some things are still new and fresh can be great too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm always the slave! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dom & Sub, all on the same night and normally more than once! ;-)

    it all depends on mine and my boyfs moods...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Always the Dom. Tried sub and just couldn't get used to it. Shall we investigate the psychology behind this? <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Id' say most poeple like abit of both I love it when my other half is abit more in control but I like taking her in hand aswell,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Boss, primarily because I hate being told what to do.

    As for Sub-Dom, I can't stand pain at all, I'd rather just snuggle. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    has to be a bit of both.

    but my gf always wants me on top
    (must be good at it) <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    KNEEL TO THE MASTER
    <IMG alt="image" src="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/FIREdevil.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    actually come to think of it....

    She does say she cant be bothered to go on top now and again

    DAMN and i thought i was getting better!!!!!

    Oh well i'll have to practice more hehehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by the girl with sharp teeth:
    <STRONG>definitely submissive <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    tie me up and spank me <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    If you want <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What have we here?
    http://www.thesite.org/magazine/specials_lovelife/sexy_stuff/bondage_for_beginners.html


    Don't say we never give you anything....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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