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Padded bras?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I was just wondering what blokes think about girls who wear padded bras... Do you think it's a bit dishonest (particularly if you think a girl is really big up top and then get down to business and find out it's all in her bra)??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    'Fraid so, it's OK if you don't get to see what's underneath, in fact it's fantastic, but you shouldn't promise an elephant and then deliver a mouse. <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Accordning to my friend, it's not fair to promise so much and to deliver so little.Apparently padded bras promise what they can't deliver. Me personally, being female, can't live without my padded bra. Not that I'm flat chested or that I want to be the next Jordan but it gives me the shape that nature wouldn't. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well in terms of getting naked with men..... if a man wore a sock in his trousers and u thought mmmmm thats quite a lunchbox, then he whipped them off to show you that he had in fact, a cocktail sausage sized penis - im sure there would be outrage among the females (or males to be pc!) <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont find that it makes a different what breast size girls have, if they look attractive then they look attractive, ne1 who bases there opinion of a female on the size of their tits is very shallow
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes its a bit dishonest they should show what they got and not what they havent got you know... do you see guys walkin around with lumps of tissue in the boxers?? lol well dont answer that one!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes its a bit dishonest they should show what they got and not what they havent got you know... do you see guys walkin around with lumps of tissue in the boxers?? lol well dont answer that one!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by cheeky_monkey:
    <STRONG>Me personally, being female, can't live without my padded bra. </STRONG>

    me too! i can't see what's dishonest about them, i mean it'll get the lads to notice u, wont it?! hehehe... <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    IMHO it doesn't matter. Point being that it only accentuates or redefines shape, it does not create.

    Paraphrase of the law of the conservation of energy; cleavage can neither be created nor destroyed, only transferred from one form to another.

    Apologies to all Physicists. And I'm sorry about the Law, too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Of course it creates shape-a *padded* bra has *pads*! I personally don't need a padded bra (ahem) but when I was younger used to wear a padded wonderbra when I went clubbing to fill my top a bit more, I never got any complaints! Now the chicken fillets that you stick in your bra, they *are* ridiculous!! And what about the water filled bras, imagine if you punctured one!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a girl wears a padded bra it just gives them a better shape and are better to look at. If u base a girl on just their tits then u need to get a life. they always look diferent when they havent got a bra on anyway, and a normal bra gives an 'un-promising' shape and size to them anyway.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry, but I cannot resist

    *MISQUOTE*
    If a girl bases herself on just their tits then they need to get a life.
    *MISQUOTE*

    I think I lean towards the 'dishonesty' arguement, but can't say I'm that bothered.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with go_away on this. If you went to have sex with someone who appeared to have a large bump in his trousers but later found out that the bump was nothing more than a sock one of you would probably be straight on here complaining about "why can't guys be honest cos it just doesn't matter".

    Practice what you preach little ones.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont think its dishonest, i mean yeah we red blooded males do look at a womans figure but its not the size of her chest that makes us atracted to them. Womens bodys all shapes and forms are beautiful and i personally see no diffrence between a B cup or a D cup so if wearin a padded bra make su feel confident the go for it <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
    love deeby doo
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont really care what size the breasts are. I find petite women just as attractive as Jordan-ites.
    I dont really mind if women wear padded bras. I dont deny that big(ish) breasts make sex more fun but they`re not absolutely necessary and it shouldn`t really make a difference.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we are not talking bout shooving socks up our bra no i wouldnt ming iff a bloke had padded underwear but a padded bra does not even make the breast look a whole loads bigger anyway!!! everyone does it i usually wear one when wearing a strapless bra!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, lets put it like this.. i'm a perfectly happy 34D, but i still wear padded bras. not only cos i prefer the shape it gives them, but also cos my tits are amazingly perky, and without the padded bras, i would NEVER get a clevage. So, it's not JUST people with smaller breasts that wear padded bras... we all have our reasons. And for the record, i wouldn't care if someone had a pair of socks in their pants with their not-too-long penis... provived it made up for it in width!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Male Opinion:

    Okay personally i dont care about breasts when im looking at a girl... in fact if it mattered at all in my sex life i would have to go for a girl with a B cup! but its not to say i wouldnt go with a girl who was C/D cup! i like other things... sorry cliche... but true!

    Jordan is a sad little insecure girl but if it makes her "FEEL" more attractive who is to say otherwise? if a girl wears a padded bra fine! i have been out with many a girl who has worn one AND IT IS NOT a let down when you get to the goods!

    Small breasts are great from a guys point of view... in my own humble opinion! you can see their face and expression easier when giving oral- vital sign of a good time can be gained this way! and plus smaller breasts are better to suck on!

    CONCLUSIOn: breast size = irrelevant!
    : padded bras = they were invented to be used so why not use them... any guy who goes off you because he finds your breasts are smaller than projected... is to immature to be getting into a bra anyway!

    Arses are the new tits anyway according to Loaded (mens mag!) so all you beautifully curved ladies out there... concentrate on your arse not your tits!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have to say that thefairmelissa is absolutely right!
    A girl's breasts are *right on show* and, lets face it, you only know the size of a guy's penis AFTER you've been attracted to him.
    And padded bras dont give a false impression they just define shape. The only ones that do are the ones with the mah-oosive pads which are usually removeable.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm cant say ive had experience with girls equipment or goods, but from observation from a distance, i actually prefer small breasts. Huge melons make my eyes water....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Melissa;
    Women don't think about sex every sex seconds.

    Err. Ooops.

    Spot the Freudian error.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DJP:
    <STRONG>Spot the Freudian error.</STRONG>

    Very good. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    Anyway, whats the arguement here? Padded bras are the very essence of evil. When it finally comes to ...ahem... "unleashing the babylons" you are confronted with only some nipples. Horrible! If there small, thats fine... but don't try and fool us! It doesn't take much. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As Tit-elating as it may seem, im afraid that messing about with MAMMARY slang words in ordinary conversation grammer is very annoying! in fact it gets on my Tits!

    Sorry!

    I think it would be BrEaST if people (mainly men) got over their Oedopus Complex and stopped lookin for ladies with "Demonic D-Cups" and accepted the Todays beauties are actually endowed with petit (and functionally more atractive) breast sizes! im not sayin that i would never go with a girl bigger than a C but its not what matters... After all there are factors such as:

    1)Ability to get sex out of the relationship!
    2)Her Arse
    3)Attitude
    4)Best friends?! (for reasons lucky people will understand!)
    5)Personality
    6)Social Advantages (especially between mates!) (ever guy likes to be the STUD!)

    Id like to take this opportunity to point out that i agree and disagree with some of the points (mainly 1!)in this reply, however i feel it necessary to express the opinion of the male race!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Padded bras just hold tits up better, same size but in a way that means a handful is easier to get <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

    I dont care about a girls boob size, Ive been with a girl with an A cup and my gf is a D, and I wouldnt say one was better than t'other <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit:
    <STRONG>t'other <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    Wow, thats like us Northern talk, that is! You bin eatin' black puddin' Kermit?
    Originally posted by Thefairmelissa:
    Dear Kirk

    Erm, yes. "The sex every sex seconds" was honestly a moment of near-drunken hysteria combined with an attempt at irony. I'll never do it ever again.

    *sobbing bitterly*

    Padded bras as the essence of evil? Hmmm...the demonic D cups etc. Never thought about them in that light. And breast tissue goes very far back: you never ever, just get nipples. Even with double A cup sized boobs.

    Best (breast?) wishes

    Melissa

    "#...Get your tits out for the lads...#"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't be bothered, I like a girl for her personallity, sense of humour and attraction, if they have all that I'm not bothered whether they wear or not wear padded bra's.

    Nuttylad
    Be safe and if you can't be safe buy a pram <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aye, av been on t'black pudden! An whats rong wiv Northern talk anyways, its the greates talk in t'world, it is. Proper English, it is.

    Only us Yorkies do it right mind <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Thefairmelissa:
    <STRONG>Get our tits out just for the lads, eh? Aren't we potentially being rather discriminatory and chauvinist there? Next time you're down the pub, why don't you just wop your manhood on the table for the ladies?</STRONG>

    Because it would smash the table into splinters under it's almighty wieght. Like Thor's hammer!

    You don't believe me? I'll tell the truth then...

    Because they'd point and laugh at it, probably. <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> Ah, I think I've just seen your point... I'll get my coat.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what really gets on my nerves is that girls bras are always found in cup size AA,A,B,C and sometimes D, im a 36 DD and i cant find my bra size anywhere and when i eventually do find it, its always padded, people are so thick to make a padded bra in a 36 DD!!

    im looking for a bra which makes my tits look smaller, any suggestions?????
    im desperate!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're in the UK, M&S do a minimiser bra...

    My g/f is forever complaining about the fact any bra bigger than D looks like body armour.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by CoNFuSeD BouT SeX:
    <STRONG>im looking for a bra which makes my tits look smaller, any suggestions?????
    im desperate!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    Noooooo!!!

    As my job entails sitting here typing away whilst occasionally selling bras to flat-chested southerners. I think you need to understand the gift(s) in your possesion.

    I get a 40% bra discount too, but I don't think we have 'minimisers' in our range.
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