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Who Prostitutes?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I wanna know who prostitutes for a living or extra easy money?

If so, I wanna know if what this guy has experienced is possible?

Basically, he has used this service a lot, but in spurts (ie. too pissed to care, explain below), and he said a few of the really great bodied ones allowed unsafe sex, kissing and unlimited fondling.
Other guys say the girls are not that great looking and they do not do any of the stuff he said.
I'm religious so I wouldn't try, but I've found this guy has not lied to me as yet.

So, why do prostitutes break these rules for a complete stranger?
I thought being in such a line of wk you would take such risks (ie smarter than the average drunken bear)?

btw, he's got a long term girl, who's a bomb in every sense, so I know he's stupid.

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheap whores will allow unsafe sex but they are the kind of girls who probably already have some disease so dont give a shit anyway.

    All will allow kissing if you pay enough and ditto for unlimited fondling, whatever that means.

    They dont have the same rules as normal girls because they are whores. Its what they do.

    Yes, what that guy experienced is perfectly possible.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The idea of visiting a whore sickens me anyway, let alone wanting to kiss one too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    <STRONG>The idea of visiting a whore sickens me anyway, let alone wanting to kiss one too.</STRONG>

    Really??

    You don't derive any sort of illicit pleasure from contemplating a casual fuck with a pro??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lord of Little:
    <STRONG>

    Really??

    You don't derive any sort of illicit pleasure from contemplating a casual fuck with a pro??</STRONG>


    No, because there's too much risk. And all the whores I've ever seen have been the ones who do it out of desperation and who are really quite ugly.

    If I was offered sex by one of the hookers you get in American movies who is always better looking than the average woman on the street then I probably would.
    But as most of the whores I've seen have been disgusting old tarts I think I'll give it a miss.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    <STRONG>


    No, because there's too much risk. And all the whores I've ever seen have been the ones who do it out of desperation and who are really quite ugly.

    If I was offered sex by one of the hookers you get in American movies who is always better looking than the average woman on the street then I probably would.
    </STRONG>

    Hmmm.... so you've no ethical or moral objections, it's purely a matter of aesthetics??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Barge, touch, with, wouldnt, a, pole!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When I was 21, I in a drunken and horny state found myself visiting a massage parlour. The sex was great and afterwards we ended up chatting with her still in my arms and arranged to see each other the next night and go clubbing. I bottled it the next day when I sobered up but always wondered if this was unusual behaviour for a pro but lets face it they are human and some must occassionally enjoy their work.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess none of you have ever been to Amsterdam??

    I have never been with a prostitute but boy you should see the ones out there.

    The red light district has THE most beautiful girls you will ever lay your eyes on just waiting in shop windows just waiting to have sex with you.

    Like i say, i never have but out there i have never been sooooo tempted.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Who Prostitutes?

    Just a little point, but.... you really think it's easy money??
    Originally posted by y
    extra easy money?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ergh!!!!!
    I really cant describe how I feel about whores, prostitutes and even the "easy" girls round here.

    put it this way...if i cant get a decent girl I'm gonna be a virgin for the rest of my life.

    those whores are just sick

    (flame me at will, i really couldnt care less about peoples views on what are my own opinions).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dappa_don
    ergh!!!!!
    I really cant describe how I feel about whores, prostitutes and even the "easy" girls round here.

    put it this way...if i cant get a decent girl I'm gonna be a virgin for the rest of my life.

    those whores are just sick

    (flame me at will, i really couldnt care less about peoples views on what are my own opinions).

    Fair enough. :) Pretty much what I'd say.

    I got solicited outside my halls of residence...really rather amusing. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I live in manc's red light district and i rather embarrasingly managed to get mugged by a prostitute at 6.30 in the morning. She nicked my money off me, offered me a bj which i immediatly refused, being a moral person (besides, she stank). All the gals at work ribbed me for weeks over that one. Ahh well, you live and learn!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know how anybdy can sink as low as to be a prostitute. This is in my opinion but i just don't see how they could. I wouldn't be able to do it. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have read articles in my girlfreinds magazines (embaressing but still :p ) about how young girls are forced into prostitution by pimps how they use physicla violence and emotional blackmail, personally i think the whole issue is sad, that some people have to live like that and resort to it, once you get into it its very hard to get out. I am sure quite a lot of them don't enjoy what they do but see no other way out.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Meh, no thanks
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that there are people who end up feeling like they have no other choice but to prostitute themselves as their body is the only commodity they have left to sell. But the idea that it's easy money is ridiculous - that's going be something that stays with you for life.

    As for those whores in Amsterdam, my mate went to one of those and the girl in the window was an absolutely stunning but the girl he got was really filthy, so don't be fooled by the advertising. The picture on the box isn't always the same as the contents! Plus the fact that there was a long queue. I just don't understand how a guy could stand to shag someone when he's stood in a line for 20 minutes with 10 other blokes all waiting to screw her, talk about road tested.:eek:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't have any moral objections to prostitution - what people do with their money and bodies is their business, as long as it is done safely (therefore I don't advocate the legalisation of class A drugs), but I don't think I could ever go to a hooker myself. I'm still a virgin, but i don't think i could ever pay for sex. Sex with a stranger is a possibility if I'm pissed, but not going to a prostitute. Most of them are minging anyway!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you think about it, most of the problems with prostitution come from the fact that it is illegal. Unlike drug legalization, there is no known health problem that comes from having sex, as long as safe sex is practised.

    So I say let's legalise it, and regulate it. All prostitutes could become government employees, ensuring that their work is safe, clean and of the highest quality. Some would object to f**ing a civil servant, but many others would enjoy it. And a percentage of their work would go to the government, so maybe they can lower our taxes.

    After all, it is the world's oldest profession.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It appears that most people would not argue that prostitutes are humans, but most of you make the assumption that they are poor littles things.
    A friend of mine, who's a registered pychologist, has patients who are women who do this out of choice bc this is the only time when they feel impowered. (Very warped understanding of pussy-power, and I don't get this myself).

    Sure the money is not "easy", but hey, I've been working since I was 14, and held a F/T job since I was 18.

    I see two points that most of you seem to have missed.

    (1) This guy's got a girl. Would any of you who would go to a pro, do so if you had a girl?

    (2) Sex with anyone is safe if it is protected. But, y said that some of the pro's are doing it without a condom.
    Aids/HIV is still mainly passed on through unprotected sex.
    I want to know what difference is there for prostitutes?
    I think there'd be none, so they should never be risking themselves and others.
    Also, how will making it legal stop unprotected sex practices?
    Maybe, it should be illegal, with harsh penalties so those paying would have to pay sh*t loads, and everyone should be on the look-out for those who attempt to rape for satisfaction (one stupid argument that I can see some of you will point out).
    But, personally I think those who are desperate enough to do something like that should be seeking help for sex-addiction.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog
    Cheap whores will allow unsafe sex but they are the kind of girls who probably already have some disease so dont give a shit anyway.

    All will allow kissing if you pay enough and ditto for unlimited fondling, whatever that means.

    They dont have the same rules as normal girls because they are whores. Its what they do.

    Yes, what that guy experienced is perfectly possible.

    Your reply seems a little disgusted at the prostitutes but you forget to mention that the men who insist on having unprotected sex are putting themselves at risk and anyone they sleep with!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do u lot think of pornstars then?

    They get paid to have sex, its just they are not seen as bad as prostitutes. Yet basically its the same concept, they both get paid to have sex and the chances of gettin a desiease can be just as high
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A way out...

    I dont regret what ive done, as ive enjoyed it! But a recent trip to Singapore i visited a brothel and went with three "working girls" during the time there.. and i always used a condom! Is it so bad to do this? reading peoples threads, i think so! But They were all absolutely beautiful, two chinese girls, a Philpeno girl and a girl from Tailand... I dont care, call me foolish or a diesease spreading ****, whatever, I just know how to have a good time! Orchard Towers - LOVE IT! Hahahahaa Anyway, All of them did it not for the money, as they all send it home to their parents/families. Two of them had kids, and were doing it for money to send them to school. They all are looking for a way out.. Ive lost count of offers of "take me home with you to england" and "marry me" from these girls overseas, and for the most part thats all they want. escape. a way out. Dont judge them all as "Whores", i cant speak for the ones in the UK but the ones i have seen/been with overseas are looking for that way out. Also, I have been back to see one particular chinese girl several times in the UAE this year and we both now want to get married. What do you think to that? Marrying an ex-working girl? Is this ethical? Is this acceptable?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is your life Metropolis, and everyone has a right to their own opinion, beliefs, values, etc.
    There are no rights and wrong IF you are not hurting anyone else.

    The problem is that there are potentials to hurt someone.

    If this girl you are planning to marry is in-love with you too then good luck to you. I hope you'll have a long and fulfilled life together.
    As you say, you were not stupid enough to not use a condom.
    Also sounds like you did not cheat on someone who cared for you.

    Though, it is definitely the people who do the paying that is at fault, any girl (prostitute or not) who OFFERS unprotected sex is an imbecile.
    It sounds like the ones y described are ultra stupid since they are in a profession that is in such high risk.
    My guess is that perhaps they found the guy attractive and wanted to please him. As some have mentioned, they are human and from a female POV, you only give a shit about someone you want to care about.
    BUT, at the first sitting? :eek:
    Can't fathom that. Can anyone explain that one to me?
    :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    because they want the money and dont care how to get it, simple as that!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmm...

    Prostitution isn't all its cracked up to be, its easy to say 'yeah these girls are all whores and don't give a fuck' well I'm sorry but it just isn't like that.

    Over here in NZ Prostitution is decriminalised and as long as they aren't within say 100 yards of a school or religious building then everything is fine and dandy.

    I've never been to a prostitute but I know several people who work on the streets, when I go clubbing I and I'm walking to munters car park I usually end up having a chat with a few of them just being friendly. One of my friends works as an escort and recently came back from somewhere in asia and made a mint, she earns more than I can in about 3 months for 2 days work and uses it to support herself and pay for her college course, shes a really nice girl but obviously doesn't like to mention her 'other' job cause of all the stigma attached.

    Prostitution is one of the oldest trades in the book, and believe it or not most of them (especially over here) all follow the safe-sex protection rule, services are charged in order of what your after and these girls pretty much ride you to orgasm and thats it. In hind-sight if potential rapists went to prostitutes and paid them instead of targeting young girls then, well, I know what I'd prefer.

    Kissing is usually counted within full sex, oral is extra but can also be seperate and on its own. Girls have the right to refuse sex with people they dislike and aren't supposed to approach potential customers but instead wait to be approached.

    Some of its not nice, I've seen some girls being constantly minded by their pimps who have iron bars down their trousers and aparently adopt some runaways, provide food and accomedation in return for the girls working the streets.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The STI issue - There has not been one case in history when a guy has got AIDS from a woman.

    The women have good reason to be prostitutes. They need the money, or need the work. The guys on the other hand, the ones who go to prostitutes, I have no respect for. Anyone who can lower themselves to paying for sex is scum in my mind.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi : )

    With respect, I'd like to disagree with the assertion that there have been no cases in history where a man has got AIDS from a woman - there have been many.

    There are men out there in loving relationships with disabled partners who (often with the consent of those partners) meet their sexual needs by visiting prostitutes, just as there are men out there who see prostitutes as nothing more than common consumables. Between the two, there will be other men with a million different reasons for paying for sex, and I feel that to label them ALL as 'scum' without taking individual circumstances into consideration is a bit lacking in compassion, though doubtless unintentional.

    Thanks. I'll leave you all to it now : )
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God almighty. there are some pretty intolerant people on here. To say as a blanket thing that prostitutes are scum or the people who visit them are too - thta's pretty fucking harsh. Many prostitutes are forced into it. Many of the men hwo visit them are simply sad, lonely people who deserve sympathy rather than vilification. And what about the one's who enjoy what they do? it isn't necessarily a moral problem, if you ask me, if it's genuinely voluntary on both sides.
    the people who really are scum are pimps. DId anyone see the Donal McIntyre documentary about the way prostitutes are brought to Britain from Eastern Europe and are literally treated as slaves? it was totally sickening.
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