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longest time without sex?
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just wondering, what's the longest between sex you guys have gone?
mine's 3 months at the moment and counting :rolleyes:
mine's 3 months at the moment and counting :rolleyes:
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then my sex life begun and the longest I went without was 7-9 months:eek: :eek: :crazyeyes :impissed: :nervous: :shocking:
Never again I hope!
Since then though the longest I've gone has only been like a week. To be honest I could really last a lot, lot longer though, I really don't care about sex much. :eek: Which is worrying for a 15 year old...
Aww!
Heh, it's probably better that way actually as most of the girls I've had the courage to ask out have now been exposed as...well psycho's to be blunt (the first one I ever asked out sent me death threats :eek2: ); except the last one who's really nice and is a good mate (they've slowly been getting more normal since the first so I'm hoping I'll have met someone who's safe by the end of Uni )
Bless ya! im sure you'll find someone worthwhile soon enough
The question stated whats the longest you've gone BETWEEN sex not how long have you gone without it...tsk!
In answer to the question, I have gone 36 years this month to the last time I had some. I was 16 at the time. Haven't had it since. Terribily overrated pasttime if you ask me wot wot.
Not that i minded anyway
thank you for pointing that out i should have made it clearer
Oh in that case 2 weeks then
Yes, but i'm erasing my virginity loss from my past as it was a traumatising experience and actually put me off sex for a long time... you're erasing yours because it makes you sound like you can't get any
haha exactly what I was gonna say!! lol I went without sex for about a year & 1/2 after losing my virginity....it put me off that much! :yuck: hehe
ditto... only it lasted 2 years, till i went out with someone that i decided i *really* liked, then we slept together 9 days into the relationship. I just had a feeling it was gonna be ok, and it was, we stayed together 11 months. he broke my heart, but that was for completely different reasons
I didnt meet the boyf I'm with now til I was 19, before that I hadn't had a long term relationship, and I sooooooo wish I had waited til meeting my current boyf! Even if I'd have been 19 before I lost it!
The subject line asks how long we've gone without sex, but the main content of the post asks how long we've been between sex. These are, as you point out, two completely separate questions, and a few people seem to have been answering the former...
...which, in my case, is 19 years and counting
Well it wasn't exactly good either or something that i really wanted to do
I know i couldn't get any anyway though so shush
And I often have to go without for a month - this time round it's likely to be a month and a half. It's not so easy to have lots of weekends together when one of you's in Germany :crying:
Sorry, just feeling a tad lonely....
My longest time without sex - after I've started having sex - was between the 23rd December 01 and the 7th June 02 (after England won against Argentina )
But I think 3 weeks has been the longest since